October 13, 2024 |
Sunday Morning
Luke 11:1-13 | Persistent Prayer
Hershael York |
Luke 11:1-13
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Well, good morning, Valley View.
It’s great to be with you today.
As I’ve been hinting at for weeks now
we have a guest speaker today.
I want to comment
just a little bit about that.
I wrote in the midweek update
about what
a rich season of growth for me
and for the church
it was
in the late 90s
when we were without a pastor,
and we had a series of interim
pastors come in
and I was talking about that
this week with Larry Peercy.
He and I were sitting at an event
here at church,
and he started to share with me
more of the background of that.
He said, John, our pastor had left.
Our church was struggling.
We had no staff.
And him and Randy Fluhr
went to Al Mohler,
the president of Southern Seminary,
and sat down with him and said,
we need help.
We’ve got nobody that can preach.
We don’t know what to do.
Would you help us?
And so Al connected him with a guy
who was the interim.
And then that guy connected us
with Hershael York, who came.
And that led to what I believe
was a foundational moment for our church
that laid the foundation
for years of growth
and joy and excitement to come.
So if you would,
would you welcome up Hershael York to
speak with us now?
Thank you, brother.
Thank you.
I can’t tell you what a delight
and a joy it is for me
and my wife, Tanya, to be with you today.
I have never been one
to struggle with decisions.
I’m not making this up.
Tanya and I went out on our first date,
and 13 days later, bought the rings.
So I’ve never been one to struggle
with decisions.
I make a decision
and then live
with the decision and implement
the decision, and and,
Jesus said,
if you put your hand to the plow and
look back
you’re not fit for the kingdom of God.
So I’ve never been one to look back.
But in 1996, I struggled with a decision.
And that was I was pastoring
really, the church
that the
Ashland Avenue Baptist Church in Lexington,
Kentucky was my family’s home church.
My mom and dad had been
saved in that church.
My dad had been ordained in that church.
My grandfather
was a deacon in that church.
So much of my family was there,
and I had been trained there myself.
I was on staff for seven years.
They called me back as pastor,
and we had bought 47 acres
for a complete relocation.
I mean, the things were hopping
and Al Mohler
and I started talking
about the possibility of me
coming to Southern Seminary,
and I struggled with that.
It was like, man, I’m a pastor.
And he was asking me to come
teach pastors, teach preachers.
And it took months.
Finally, March of 1997,
I accepted, but I feared.
I cannot tell you.
The fear
I felt of the first Sunday
not standing in a pulpit preaching.
And it was like
three weeks before my time had actually
ended,
Carroll Hatcher called me.
And he said,
hey, I’m on the committee, Valley View
Baptist Church,
and our interim pastor is leaving,
and he recommended we talk to you
and we’d like you to come
maybe talk to us about being our interim.
And my first Sunday as interim here
was my first Sunday
out of the pulpit at Ashland Avenue.
You have no idea.
You have no idea.
What a difference it made in my life.
It’s hard for people to understand
this now.
1997, I was persona non grata,
at Southern Seminary.
I mean, Southern Seminary
had come out of a
really very different time.
I couldn’t– I would not have been asked
to lead
in silent prayer
at the Kentucky Baptist Convention
in 1997.
Now, the Lord changed all that.
By his grace. You know, I ended up.
I could not feel more loved and affirmed
and respected by my tribe than I do
in the Kentucky Baptist Convention today.
But my point is, Valley View
took an incredible leap of
faith on a guy named Hershael York.
And you allowed me to come here
when I desperately needed you.
And it just turned out
that in the providence of God,
you desperately needed me
at the same time.
Isn’t God wonderful?
And isn’t it incredible
the way in his sovereignty,
he’s weaving together
all these different threads of our lives
with his beautiful sovereign grace
and making a tapestry
that he is weaving,
that ultimately is
going to picture Jesus.
What is our destiny?
To be conformed to the image of His son?
He’s making us look like his son.
Now, along the way,
he wants us to take as many people
with us as we can take,
doesn’t he?
I wonder if you have people in your life
that you are praying for.
Now let me say,
if today you’re here
and you’ve never put your faith
and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ,
oh, I want to plead with you to do so.
I’m telling you, as your friend,
it is the absolute
best thing in the world
that can ever happen to you to know
Jesus as Lord and Savior.
And, I want to point you to him,
but I suspect most of you
have already done that.
And maybe your great concern is
that there are people in your life
that, you know
they’ve never trusted Christ.
Maybe they’re family members, people
you work with,
maybe your children,
somebody you’re married to,
but you’ve got a burden.
I want to encourage you this morning
from Luke chapter 11, that Jesus
said something to us about interceding
for those around us.
Let me put it like this.
We’re asking for a friend, aren’t we?
Jesus wanted his disciples to get this,
so read with me, beginning in verse
one of Luke 11.
Now Jesus was praying in a certain place,
and when he finished,
one of his disciples said to him,
Lord, teach us to pray,
as John taught his disciples.
And he said to them, okay, when you pray,
say, father, hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come.
Give us each day
our daily bread, and forgive us our sins,
for we ourselves forgive
everyone who’s indebted to us.
And lead us not into temptation.
And he said to them,
which of you who has a friend
will go to him
at midnight
and say to him, friend,
lend me three loaves.
For a friend of mine
has arrived on a journey,
and I have nothing to set before him.
And he’ll
answer from within, do not bother me.
The door is now shut.
My children are with me in bed.
I cannot get up and give you anything.
I tell you though he will not get up
and give him anything
because he is his friend.
Yet because of his impudence
he will rise
and give him whatever he needs.
And I tell you, ask.
And it might be given you.
Did I read that right?
Ask and it will be given.
You seek and you will find.
Knock and it will be opened to you for
some people…
Is that what it says?
…for everyone who asks, receives,
and the one who seeks finds,
and to the one who knocks,
it will be opened.
For what father among you,
if he has a son ask for a fish,
will instead of a fish,
give him a serpent?
Or if he asks for
an egg, will give him a scorpion.
Now if you then, who are evil,
know how to give good gifts
to your children,
how much more will the Heavenly Father
give the Holy Spirit to those
who ask him?
I think the most frightening sound
you’ll ever hear
is somebody banging on your door
in the middle of the night.
Yeah, I’m old enough, like many of you,
that I can remember
when we used to have landlines
and, you know,
you couldn’t really
turn them off at night.
If somebody called you
the middle of the night,
they woke you up.
But anymore, man,
we all got cell phones,
and it’s got Do Not Disturb.
In fact,
mine just automatically a certain time of
night, it goes on sleep
and then
comes back on 7:00 the next morning,
you call me during the night. Guess what?
I don’t even hear it.
So if you really need me,
if you really want me,
you call me in the middle of the night I don’t answer.
You’re going
to have to show up at my door.
And that would be very disconcerting.
Nobody shows up at your door
at 3:00 in the morning
to tell you they got a raise.
They’re not coming with good news.
I mean, if they’re there
in the middle of the night,
there’s an urgency,
and they need you to do something.
Well, this is precisely
what Jesus is talking about here.
Jesus, you know that the disciples,
Jesus has taught them how to pray.
If you read the Sermon on the Mount,
there Jesus teaches them how to pray.
He gives them
what we call the Lord’s
Prayer, a model of prayer.
But here again, you know,
they keep hearing John the Baptist.
He’s teaching his disciples
a lot about prayer, and
we don’t think we know enough about it.
Jesus, teach us how to pray.
Jesus says, okay,
I’m happy to teach you how to pray.
And so he gives them here
another version of the model prayer.
But notice the model prayer is largely
about asking God to do stuff for us.
Now, it’s not wrong to ask God
to bless you, to meet your daily needs.
I mean,
Jesus teaches us
that, that’s a good thing,
but notice
he does not stop there this time.
Now he wants to go beyond
the give us this day our daily bread.
He wants to talk to you
about the other people who need bread.
And so he says, now which of you
who has a friend and,
you know,
somebody comes to you
in the middle of the night
and they’re asking,
you know,
they come to you, by the way,
you know, you’ve got to set something
before them.
Now, understand, in a middle
eastern context, over there
in the middle East,
they take hospitality to a whole
nother level.
I mean, I cannot describe it to you.
Tonya and I have eaten with families
on the West Bank.
Arab families who
I’m talking
cooked a lamb
and like the way Hawaiians
do a pig in a luau,
they do that with a lamb.
They bury it underground,
with hot coals, and cook it all day.
And we sat there.
I mean, the
the father of this family
just ripped that meat off the bone
and put it on our plate.
I’m talking pounds of this stuff,
and you’re shoveling it
in, and the mom is going, eat
Hershael, you’re not eating.
Why are you not eating?
Is it not good?
And you know, I’m eating, I’m eating.
Oh, please.
Oh, do you need me
to make something else?
Is this not good for you?
I mean, you’re shoveling it
in as fast as you can,
and they’re like, oh,
bring this, bring that.
I mean, there’s food all over the table
and they’re big about it.
And they take great pride and delight in
feeding you.
So it would be a
shameful thing
for somebody to come to you
in the middle of the night.
Some family member stops in, someone from,
let’s say, up
north in Galilee,
coming down to Jerusalem
to worship at the temple.
They arrive at 10:00 at night.
Hey, I’m here.
Man, it’s your duty to give them food.
But you’ve not been to the grocery store.
You don’t have anything.
And so what do you do? Man,
I got a friend down the street.
They’ve always got something.
I’ll go there.
And you go there.
Now you bang on the door.
It’s a shame
you can’t turn away
this person who’s come to you
in the middle of the night.
And so what are you doing?
You’re asking someone
to give you bread
to give to another person.
Now right there.
Jesus.
In that one three way triangle,
as all triangles are.
Right there.
That’s what intercession is.
It’s one person going to another person
to get bread for a third person.
And Jesus obviously wants us to get this.
Now, let’s not lose
sight of the fact
that Jesus himself is an intercessor.
The Bible talks about Jesus interceding
for us in the Gospel of Luke.
Luke will give us several times.
Jesus intercedes, most famously
when he’s on the cross.
What does he pray?
Father,
forgive them.
They know not what they do.
Man, I love that.
I love everything about that
plea of Jesus.
It’s just such a beautiful prayer.
He’s not.
He doesn’t say, father, forgive
the soldiers, though
he certainly means them.
He doesn’t say, father, forgive my
murderers. He’s…
there’s no word of accusation
in his prayer.
And yet he certainly includes them.
He doesn’t say,
father, forgive these
these Jewish leaders who have abandoned
Moses in order to attack and kill me.
Though his prayer is
big enough to embrace them,
he simply says, father, forgive them.
Now that
that’s a pronoun I can crawl into,
can you get in there?
Can you see that Jesus prayed for you
when he said, father, forgive them?
They don’t know what they do.
He interceded on the cross
the night before his crucifixion.
You remember,
see, Simon Peter is saying,
I’ll never deny you.
And Jesus said, Simon, Simon.
Now I’ll put it in in Southern English,
so you understand
exactly what’s going on.
He said, Satan has desired y’all
to have y’all to sift y’all as wheat.
He uses all plurals there.
But then he says,
but I have prayed concerning you.
Singular
that your faith fail not.
And when you have returned,
strengthen your brothers.
And I love that prayer.
That when Jesus says
that to Peter, he’s
not saying, notice what he doesn’t say.
He doesn’t say, if you return
because Jesus knows
if he has interceded for Peter,
will God hear and answer that prayer?
If Jesus intercedes for us, will God
the Father answer the prayer
of his precious son?
It is unthinkable
that God would ever hear
Jesus pray for anything and say no to it.
So when Jesus says, Simon,
I’ve interceded for you,
I’ve pleaded for you.
I’ve prayed that your faith won’t fail.
Your courage is going to fail you.
Your good sense is going to fail you.
But I’m praying that your faith
won’t fail.
And when,
not if, but when you’ve returned.
You strengthen your brothers.
And that’s precisely what happened.
Simon.
He denies Jesus, but because Jesus
has interceded for him,
Jesus doesn’t let him go.
He returns.
And man, just 40 days
later, you know, on the day of Pentecost
or 50 days later,
he’s preaching
and God uses him,
and 3000 people are saved.
And Peter’s
never the same again,
because when he returned,
he strengthened his brothers. Why?
Because Jesus prayed
that his faith wouldn’t fail.
Now here’s Jesus, the great intercessor,
teaching us a lesson about intercession.
He wants us to see that we’re one person,
but we we don’t have anything.
We go to the one who has the bread
in order for us
to share it with the third person.
Now, if there’s anything this
this parable teaches
us about intercession,
it’s how we ought to do it.
First of all,
you need to intercede by praying boldly.
Pray boldly.
I mean, look how bold, audacious,
daring this guy is.
He goes
in the middle of the night
and bangs on the door.
I mean, he is …
he doesn’t care that the lights
are flipping on and neighbors
dogs are barking and
and the guy inside is denying him.
He’s just going to keep praying.
You know,
you might remember those of you
who had children
when they were little, and man,
you’d have those nights
where you just couldn’t
get them to sleep,
and you did everything in the world
to get them to sleep.
You, you know, trot them on your knee
and you’d sing to them and pat on them
and do everything you could.
And just when you get them to sleep,
then something happens.
It wakes them up
and you just feel all that.
Can you imagine? Here’s the guy in bed.
You know, back then
they didn’t have multiple bedrooms
and all.
They had sort of one family bed.
And and he’s got his kids
there tucked the baby
and the toddlers and the,
the little
older children,
they’re all in there around him in bed
and he’s just got them asleep.
And then here’s this guy,
hey, I need bread.
He’s like, man, I… go away.
I just got the kids asleep.
Man, this guy didn’t care.
He’s bold.
He just keeps asking.
Keeps pleading.
You look at the great,
the great intercessors in the Bible.
They all have this characteristic.
They plead boldly.
Think about Abraham
in the book of Genesis.
When Abraham,
when learns that God is going to destroy
Sodom and Gomorrah, what does he do?
Listen to what he says to God.
Will you destroy the righteous with the
with the unrighteous?
Will not the judge of all the earth
do right?
Oh, I hear that.
And I go, Abraham,
do you know who you’re talking to
there?
I mean, it sounds almost disrespectful,
but does God rebuke Abraham?
No.
Abraham says, will you destroy it
if there are 50
righteous people in there?
And God says, no, I won’t.
He says, Will you destroy it if there are 45?
No, for 45 I will spare it. How about 40?
Will you spare it if there are 40?
I mean, Abraham keeps pressing God
to show grace and mercy to Sodom.
He gets goes down to ten.
Now Abraham himself stops at ten because
then he’s going to get down
into the number of his own family
that are in there.
And I think he’s afraid of the answer
to that.
But God never says, don’t talk to me
that way.
God is pushing Abraham.
He’s testing Abraham.
Do you really want me to spare Sodom?
And Abraham boldly pleads for Sodom.
How about Moses? In Exodus,
I think it’s 32 where, Moses is up on
Sinai and God,
says he tells him, he says,
get out of my way.
My people down in the valley,
they’re they’re in sin.
The Bible euphemistically says,
the people sat down to eat
and rose up to play.
They’re engaging in all kinds of sexual
sin and idolatry.
They’ve they’ve erected a golden calf.
And God says, get out of my way.
Your people who
you brought up out of Egypt.
He said, they they have fallen into sin.
And I’m going to destroy them
and listen to the way
Moses pleads for them.
Moses says,
Oh, God, turn from your fierce wrath.
Relent from the harm to your people.
Now if you catch that God called them
your people to Moses.
Moses reminds God,
oh no, they’re your people,
they’re yours.
And in his intercession, Moses.
Moses makes two really bold statements.
He tells God, if you destroy them,
it will ruin your reputation.
The Egyptians will say,
you could get them out of Egypt,
but you couldn’t
get them through the mountains.
And then he says,
you’ll be breaking your own promise
and violating your own word.
He says, Remember Abraham
and Isaac and Jacob,
your servants
to whom you swore by your own self
that they would inherit the land forever.
Wow!
Moses,
don’t forget who you’re talking to, man.
Does God rebuke him
and say, don’t talk to me like that.
No. Why?
Because. Listen.
Now get this
Moses isn’t asking for a new Mercedes.
He’s not asking for fame or fortune.
What’s he pleading for?
He’s pleading for God to spare sinners.
He’s pleading with God
based on two things
just like Abraham does: God’s Word
and God’s character.
God never gets upset with you
when you plead his character,
who He is and His word,
what he has said.
And in both cases,
Abraham and Moses are praying
based on that.
And this is exactly
what Jesus is teaching us to do,
because the character
of that
guy is, first of all, he’s his friend.
And secondly, his word is he has bread.
And this guy knows he’s got bread.
He goes to him
and he’s pleading his character,
Hey friend, give me three loaves.
I know you’ve got it,
I need it, give it to me.
He prays boldly, but it’s not only bold.
Secondly, when you intercede,
you got to pray stubbornly,
stubbornly.
The most
critical part of Luke 11 is verse eight.
He says, I say to you, though
he will not rise and give him,
because he is his friend.
Yet because of his impudence,
his persistence,
the old King
James word is his importunity.
What it simply means
this guy won’t quit.
He won’t stop because he is stubborn,
that guy will finally rise
and he won’t just give him three.
He’ll give him as many as he needs.
Now, I got to tell you,
Luke’s gospel is different
from the other gospels
in that he gives us certain parables
that are strange to us.
They’re parables that sometimes
it makes it sound like Jesus is comparing
God to a bad person.
He’ll say like,
here’s an unjust judge.
He won’t
he won’t give justice to this widow
because he doesn’t care about God or man.
He’s he doesn’t care about justice.
Yet because of her persistence,
he’ll give it to him.
Or here’s a steward.
He’s a bad guy.
He steals from his master.
But when he learns
there’s going to be an accounting,
what does he do?
He calls all the guys that owe his master
money, said, hey, how much you owe?
We’ll cut that in half.
And Jesus tells
parables like that in Luke
and we go, Is
Jesus glorifying bad behavior?
And no,
the point he’s always making is, look,
if a bad guy, an evil guy,
has enough sense to do this
kind of a thing,
how much more like,
if a bad guy knows there’s
going to be a day of accounting,
there’s going to be a reckoning.
How much more should
the Children of Light prepare
for the accounting we’re going to have?
If a bad father, an evil father, knows
how to give good gifts to his kid,
how much more will
your good Heavenly Father
know to give you the Holy Spirit?
And this is what he does here.
If this guy won’t get up
and give him something
because he’s his friend, yet
because of his persistence, he will
if your heavenly father and he’s like, if
this guy
will reward persistence,
how much more will
your heavenly Father who loves you
and wants you to have exactly
what you need
for your friends
to have the Bread of Life?
How much more will he?
But make no mistake about it,
Jesus is telling us
we need to be bold and stubborn
in our praying, isn’t he?
Because not only does he do it here,
he does it in
Luke 18 when he tells
that story of the unjust judge
and he says that widow
just she’s persistent.
She just won’t stop asking for justice.
How much more will
your heavenly father give justice?
So here she’s determined to get bread
and she’s
he’s persistent until he’s answered.
Yeah, this word,
translated impudence.
It means a lack of shame,
a shamelessness.
Most of us, you know,
we went knocked on the door.
Hey, hey, we we’d be, you know, I mean,
how would you knock on the door
in the middle of the night
asking for bread? Most of us would be
Billy Bob.
Hey, Billy
Bob, are you in there?
And Billy Bob said, man,
my kids just went to sleep.
Come back in the morning.
What would we do?
We’d slink off
a little bit embarrassed
that we disturbed him.
Not this guy.
Right.
Go away. Man.
My kids just got to sleep.
They’re in bed with me.
He’s like, I don’t care.
I need bread.
And the the whole picture here, the story
Jesus gives us is two stubborn guys,
one determined
to get bread, one determined
not to give it to him.
And it is a battle of wills.
And the guy on the outside
is not going to leave without it.
And he just he just stubbornly asked.
That is precisely the way Jesus wants us
to pray.
Sort of like Jacob wrestling with, really
who is Jesus in the in the Old Testament
in Genesis 32.
Remember when Jacob wrestles
with God all night long
and he keeps going,
and Jesus, in this pre
incarnate existence,
he says to Jacob, let me go, let me go.
And Jacob goes, no,
I’m not going to let you go
till you bless me.
Now let me ask you something.
If Jesus, the second person
of the Trinity,
the Creator and Sustainer
of the entire universe,
is wrestling with Jacob,
is that a fair fight?
Do you really think Jesus wants him
to let him go when he says,
do you think Jesus needs him to let go?
Is Jesus pleading with him like, oh,
I hope you let me go?
No, you see this frequently in Scripture.
God tests us, doesn’t he?
Do you really want this?
Do you really want that
person to be saved? Do you?
Do you really want me
to act on your behalf?
Are you willing to wrestle through?
And
finally, toward the morning,
the this, this unknown man who,
as the story unfolds again,
we know it’s God. Jacob learns.
He figures out.
I’ve been wrestling with God all night.
He touches
the I don’t remember the King
James Version, the hollow of his thigh,
and he walks with a limp
the rest of his life.
But he walks better
than he’s ever walked.
Why?
Because now he knows
he has an utter dependance on God.
And he’s he’s received a blessing.
See, you and I have to do like that.
Sometimes it feels like
God’s not answering,
but God is.
God is answering.
He’s just strengthening us along the way.
He just making us
see how desperately we are.
Because it’s not merely praying boldly
and stubbornly, it’s praying desperately.
Only desperate men and women,
propelled by a sense of urgency,
truly intercede.
I mean, a cry of desperation
sounds throughout this parable.
It would have been
easy to convince a casual host to wait
for a more practical hour
to go banging on his neighbor’s door.
Unconcern always finds an excuse.
Deep concern always finds a way.
And this guy is deeply concerned.
Only desperate
men and women
take desperate actions and prevail.
The problem is
the situation is desperate
and we are not.
I mean, people in our life
that don’t know Jesus are truly lost.
They have no hope.
And when we realize
how desperate that situation
is, it changes
the way we pray, changes
the way we think.
I mean, this this parable teaches
our inescapable responsibility.
A friend of mine has come to me
on my journey.
A lot of Baptists,
you know, man, they they
their idea of evangelism is memorizing
the pastor’s phone number,
saying,
hey, preacher,
I got this a friend,
I’d really like you to talk to him.
You know,
I think maybe he’s open to the gospel.
Would you. Would you talk to my friend?
Hey, that person didn’t
come to the pastor on their journey.
They came to you.
You sit by him at school or at work.
You live by them in your neighborhood.
They’re in your family.
God, had you born in that family
to reach that person.
It’s not your pastor’s family,
it’s yours.
And he gave you
the knowledge that he has the bread.
It’s our inescapable responsibility.
It also teaches our inadequate resources.
I mean, they’ve come to us,
but we just need to admit
I don’t have bread for them.
I’ve never argued
anybody into salvation.
I’ve never saved anybody.
I’ve never so intellectually
dominated them that they just said,
oh, you’re
just so much smarter than I,
I know now I need Jesus.
That’s not how it happened.
You know how it happens?
We plead with God.
We plead with God.
We plead with God
until he gives the good gift
that only the father can give,
which is the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
And it’s the Holy Spirit
that opens their heart and their mind.
We have inadequate resources.
Lord, this man who sits beside me at work
came in.
He’s lost
and I don’t have anything to give him.
Lord, my teenage daughter is facing
such great temptation
and I don’t have anything to give her.
Lord,
my my, my uncle, he’s lost and
I don’t have anything to give him.
Yeah, but you know who does.
And when you begin
to just, man, the ramparts of heaven, I’m…
I’m going to just assault
heaven with my prayers.
I’m going to plead,
and I’m going to plead,
and I’m going to plead.
Then it brings you to the
very last thing in this parable,
and that’s our inevitable reward.
Jesus says, though
he won’t give him
because he’s his friend.
Yet because of his persistence,
his stubbornness, he’ll arise
and give him how much?
As many.
And I mean, once the guy is up,
why stop at three?
Here. Take four, take five, take six.
Take everything. Just go.
When God responds to our prayers,
he always responds in abundance.
My whole life.
My whole adult life.
I told you, Tanya and I met…
we met in 19…
1980
And we were both PKS.
I was a preacher’s kid,
and she was a pagans kid.
I mean, you talk about two radically
different lifestyles, backgrounds.
We had it, man.
Her dad–
how do I say this delicately?–
was the meanest man I think I ever met.
He was, he was,
he was harsh.
He was abusive.
I mean, he had his own code, but, man,
if you crossed him,
you were on the bad list for forever.
And he really had
very few boundaries that,
I mean,
he he didn’t worry about boundaries.
Well, when I fell in love
with Tanya, you know, men suddenly
he’s in my life.
And I got to lead Tanya’s
mom to the Lord, to baptize her.
But her dad, he wanted nothing to do
with Jesus.
Now I will tell you, he
he he grew to love me.
And he respected me.
When our sons came along,
he loved the way we reared them.
He was proud of that.
And he would say, I’m
glad that worked for you all.
I’m glad you’re raising
my grandsons the way you are.
But man, he wanted
nothing to do with the Lord.
Through the years.
We would be,
you know, we try to be subtle.
That didn’t work.
We tried to be absolutely direct.
We’d go over to his house
and we would just cry and plead with him
and try and share the gospel.
That didn’t seem to work.
We’d have other people stop by the house.
I mean, we we schemed for his salvation.
We plotted for his redemption.
We did everything we knew to do that
he might one day trust the Lord.
No interest whatsoever.
I’m glad it worked for you.
I don’t want that.
I mean, decades of this.
And frankly, the older he got, the more
I dreaded having to preach his funeral.
Her mom died in 2009.
I preached her funeral.
And of course, man,
I filled it with the gospel
because he was there and he
had to hear it.
And it was,
soon after
that, her dad was a big fisherman.
And, I go to Brazil a lot.
My dad was a missionary in Brazil.
And I go down there
and I fish for peacock bass.
They call them tucunaré in Brazil.
And
we had asked him
if he wanted to go to Brazil to go
pick up bass fishing. Now,
my best friend, pastors a church,
a really large church
there, Manaus, Brazil.
And we thought, we’ll go down and we get
if we can get him to Brazil,
he can’t talk to anybody but us,
right, because he didn’t
speak any Portuguese.
And we’ll just talk about the gospel
the whole time. We’ll get him out there.
I’ll get him out there
on a boat for three days up the Amazon.
He can’t talk to anybody but me
and we’ll just pour the gospel into him.
And so he he was game.
I said, yeah,
let’s go to Brazil and go
peacock bass fishing.
And he’s like, let’s do it.
And at 80, I think he was 83 years old.
We took him to Brazil
and man, we did.
We pulled out the the stops.
We talked about
Jesus around him all the time.
We I’m not making this up.
We’d be at the table
and we talk about the Lord
and the gospel with our friends
David and Penny Hatcher.
He pastored that really large church,
and then her dad would break out
the most inappropriate story
you can imagine.
And, you know, we all just went with it.
I mean, he
you don’t get upset
with a lost guy for acting like a lost guy.
But we made sure that he heard it.
Well, sure enough, we go up.
David and I took him fishing up,
up north of Manaus, and
and we had the best time.
And it’s just incredible
being in the jungle
and seeing God do stuff in nature.
And when we talked to him
and I just said,
I just flat out asked him, I said, Gene,
why won’t you trust Jesus?
And he said,
what kind of a man would I be?
What kind of a man
would I be to live my whole life for me?
And now I’m old and about to die.
And now I say, oh, Jesus save me.
He said, what kind of a man does that?
I said, A saved man.
I said, here’s what you’re not getting.
It takes as much grace of God
to save me as a seven year old boy
from all my future sin
and even potential sin,
as it does to save you as an 83 year
old man
from all your past sin, it’s still grace
we all desperately need.
Grace. This is what you’re not getting.
Now I will tell you.
My wife, his daughter
had was probably
the only person in his life
who just relentlessly showed him grace.
He knew
what kind of father he’d been to her.
He knew the things he had done to her.
And yet she just loved him
and treated him
as though he had been
the best dad in the world.
And she just showed him
that kind of relentless grace.
When we came,
we came back from,
you know, up in the jungle.
We came back to announce on Sunday.
We took him to church.
Now it’s all in Portuguese
and I understand anything,
but there’s just something powerful
about watching about 3500 bouncing
Brazilians around you,
praising the name of the Lord.
And he sat right on the front row
watching this, and he looked at Tonya.
He said, these people really believe
what they’re singing.
And she said, they do.
And he looked up at the screen
and it’s all in Portuguese.
But he said,
there’s only one word up there
I recognize.
And she said, what’s that?
He said, Jesus.
She said, well, daddy,
that’s the only word you need
to recognize.
I’m going to tell you
there was something in him
on that trip that softened.
He didn’t trust the Lord.
But when we came back to the States Tonya’s
niece met us at the airport
and took him back to his house,
and she said on the way,
he didn’t once mention the fishing,
the very thing we’d gone there to do.
He talked about our friends
David and Penny
and the kind of people they were.
He talked about the church a lot,
what he saw there and these Brazilians
and the way they worshiped.
And and he talked about that.
It was a few months after that
working out in his garden.
One day,
he fell, his legs just gave out on him
and he never walked again.
We didn’t find him till the next morning.
He was out there all night and,
something had happened in his body
and he required round the clock care.
We had to put him in a nursing facility.
And so,
you know, it was a really big man
and really proud man.
And to be honest with you,
we had always worried
if we got to that point
that he would have no will to live.
I mean, he was just like,
if I can’t do it on my terms,
I don’t want to do it.
And so we went to visit him.
Those first few days
he was in the nursing home.
They couldn’t even get a TV in his room.
We had all kinds of red tape
he had to go through and all that,
and he just it’s just him and four walls.
And when we walked
in, we were stunned by how
happy he was, cheerfully so, even.
And he was doing
remarkably better than we anticipated.
We talked to him,
and when we got up to leave,
he looked at me
and he said something
unlike anything he’d ever said to me in.
But at
that time, 35 years of knowing him,
he said, preach to me, Hershey.
I thought,
he’s confused.
I thought he meant pray for him.
But he’d never, ever asked me to do that.
So I walked to one side of his bed,
Tonya to the other, we took a hand
and I began to pray for him.
Now I will tell you,
I prayed like this guy.
I prayed, Lord,
I prayed for the Lord to save him.
I prayed for the Lord
to give him repentance and faith.
I said, Lord,
he’s had his way long enough.
Would you have your way?
Jesus deserves praise from his life.
Lord, if you would just save him.
And and then I prayed for him
physically as well. But I prayed.
And when I said Amen,
he looked up
with the biggest smile on his face
and he patted my hand and he said,
I’ve done that.
Though you got more faith.
And I had at the moment
was I looked at Tonya and I went,
I mean, we looked at each other.
I was as confused as I could be.
Isn’t it a crazy that you plead
and you plead and you plead with God?
And when he says yes,
you go like, what just happened?
We looked at each other and I said,
Gene, are you telling me
you’ve repented of your sins
and put your faith and trust
in Jesus alone for eternal life?
He said, yes, I’ve done that.
I said, now don’t mess with me
Gene.
I said, I really want to spend eternity
with you.
He said, well, you will,
because I’ve done that.
I think they could hear our shouts
and our cries
three counties over from Fayette County,
where he was in the nursing home.
We went
outside and sat in the car
for 30 minutes.
We couldn’t drive
because I couldn’t see to drive.
And I’m going to tell you
something, two years,
the last two years of his life,
he was a remarkably different person.
Old hatreds and prejudices
and things that were just gone.
They were gone.
And he had a kindness about it was
there was a joy in him.
It was a different guy.
And when I preached his funeral,
it wasn’t
it wasn’t
one of the saddest moments of my life.
It was one of the most glorious
moments of my life.
Why?
Because when God got up
and gave me the bread, he gave me
as much as I needed.
Now look,
everything in me wants to back off,
what Jesus says here.
I wanted to put
in caveats, and
I want I want to say
maybe now,
maybe this won’t work for everybody.
But I just can’t get away from the words.
Everyone.
Everyone who asks
receives.
Now he puts it in that present tense.
So the point is, in
the context of the parable is
you got to ask and you got to do what?
Keep on asking.
You got to seek
and you got to keep on seeking.
You got to knock
and you got to keep on knocking.
But Jesus said, everyone
who asks receives.
Everyone who seeks, finds.
Everyone who knocks, it will be open to him.
Your heavenly
father knows the thing you need.
And what is the thing you need?
What’s the good gift
he promises he will give? The Holy Spirit.
Are you bold enough?
Are you stubborn enough?
Are you desperate enough to trust
God for what he said?
Would you bow your head right now?
For whom are you praying?
Who’s the person
that’s come to you on their journey?
That you need to pray,
plea for right now?
There might be more than one, but
there surely ought to be at least one.
Who’s the person you’ve been tempted
to give up on,
and to quit pleading and praying for
and asking God to save?
Can you be bold
and desperate and stubborn?
And can you do it for years
and years and years if need
be?
Can you have enough trust that you know
your Heavenly
Father has what you don’t have,
that he can give the Holy Spirit,
and that you’re just going
to keep on asking
and seeking and knocking
until he rises and gives you
as much as you need?
It might be that this morning
you realize that you’re
the one who needs the bread,
not for someone else, but for you.
You’ve never put your faith
and trust in Christ.
And today.
You’re ready
to put your trust in Jesus,
repenting of your sin,
accepting what he’s done for you
on Calvary’s
cross that he alone is the bread of life.
And today you’ll trust in him.
Whatever
your business with God.
I know Jesus will answer
with all the grace you need.
Father,
you know
the cry and the need of every heart here.
You know precisely
the name of every person
that needs the bread of life
that some in this room
are praying for right now.
You know you know their need.
Lord, I’m asking that you give us
the kind of stubbornness
that made Jacob wrestle all night,
the kind of boldness
that made Abraham and Moses both plead
based on your character and your word,
the kind of relentlessness
that made that widow
keep pleading for justice
until the judge gave it.
Jesus himself highlighted this.
He gave us this story.
So, Lord,
we want to let it have its full impact on
our lives that we
will be bold,
stubborn, and desperate,
knowing our inadequate resources,
knowing
our inevitable reward.
Because you
are the one who has the Holy Spirit
whom we need.
Lord, may your spirit move right now.
In Jesus name we pray.
Amen.
