October 19, 2025 |
Sunday Morning
Philippians 2:19-30 | Qualities of the Commendable
John C. Majors |
Philippians 2:19-30
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Well, good morning, Valley View.
We’re continuing our study
of the book of Philippians.
So if you have a Bible,
you want to go ahead and turn there.
If you don’t have a Bible slip out
any time
we have them out in the Connection
Corner, note taking outlines are there as well.
We’re going to wrap up chapter two today.
I was asked this week by someone
and I had mentioned this
at the men’s breakfast,
but someone asked me,
hey John, what are you?
We know you like to read a lot.
What are you reading for fun,
I thought I read everything for fun.
It’s all fun.
But I know what you mean by that.
And I was a little embarrassed to admit,
but I went ahead and said, well, I’m
reading a book about serial killers.
I know it sounds weird.
It’s a little embarrassing.
I thought.
In my defense,
I thought it was primarily
a book about how lead poisoning,
in the 70s,
especially in the Pacific Northwest,
led to a lot of challenges.
But the main one was
serial killers
was the
prominent position of this author.
And so I was thinking about that
and the odd connection
to another book I had been reading
about narcissists.
Of course, narcissists,
you know, are people
completely self-absorbed,
can never admit wrong,
not even possibly conceive
they might be wrong,
don’t receive correction
well, and some of you are going,
I know a few those. But no elbows
right now,
okay? We may have those traits.
That doesn’t mean
we’re all full blown narcissist.
Point being,
as I thought about having read both
those kind of odd books,
there’s an interesting connection
about those that really stood out to me.
And it’s that
none of us would ever recommend
anyone look to
either of those people
as a person to follow in life.
Those are the worst of the worst
in society.
You would never go.
You know,
there are some redeeming attributes
about serial killers and narcissists
that maybe we could look to
and follow it.
No, you would say
run from that kind of person.
Literally stay far away
from that kind of personality.
Never follow anything about them.
Worst of the worst.
Which raises the question for
us today in
that Paul is going to address,
then who should we follow?
We know who not to follow.
But look, everybody’s
going to follow somebody.
It sometimes we do it on purpose.
Sometimes we do it by accident,
led along without realizing it.
The question
for each of us to wrestle with,
who am I going to follow?
Who am I going
to pattern my life after?
Who am I going to look to for
wisdom, advice, direction?
Paul today to the Philippians
is going to commend to them
two people in particular.
It’s a young church
and especially a young church
needs examples.
And Paul says, here’s two people.
I’m going to send them your way.
Follow them, model them,
model your life after them.
We all need that.
And what we’re going to see in
today’s passage
are ten qualities
of the commendable person.
I know you’re thinking the
ten point outline, John.
You’re struggling to get through three.
Don’t worry.
I’m going to keep it moving.
We’ll get through all ten
and we’re going to do something
a little different here
at the end of the service
today as well, to build on
that. Ten qualities of the commendable.
So let’s start by
just reading our passage here
in Philippians chapter two,
verse 19 through 30.
I’m going to read the whole section
to set up these ten points.
I hope
in the Lord Jesus
to send Timothy to you soon.
So that I too
may be cheered by news of you.
For I have no one like him
who will be genuinely concerned
for your welfare,
for they all seek their own interests,
not those of Jesus Christ.
But you know, Timothy, his proven worth.
How is a son with a father?
He has served with me in the gospel.
I hope, therefore, to send him
just as soon as I see
how it will go with me.
And I trust in the Lord
that shortly I myself will come also.
I have thought it necessary
to send to you Epaphroditus,
my brother
and fellow worker and fellow soldier,
and your messenger
and minister to my need.
For he has been longing for you all,
and has been distressed,
because you heard that he was ill.
Indeed, he was ill near to death.
But God had mercy on him,
and not only on him, but on me also, lest
I should have sorrow upon sorrow,
I am the more eager
to send him therefore,
that you may rejoice at seeing him again,
and that I may be less anxious.
So receive him in the Lord with all joy
and honor
such men, for he nearly died
for the work of Christ, risking his life
to complete
what was lacking in your service to me.
So Paul
commends these two individuals to them.
Timothy. Epaphroditus,
these are people
you should look to and follow.
Now let’s look at these ten qualities
that he highlights.
What are the ten things that we see
in here. We could list more.
We could summarize some.
But these are ten that stood out to me.
First is that Timothy in particular
is devoted.
He is devoted.
Look at how he describes
Timothy in verse 19.
I hope in the Lord Jesus
to send Timothy to you soon,
so that I may be cheered
by the news of you.
For I have no one like him.
Timothy is devoted in
such a way that he stands out
above the rest,
and you’ve seen this in various settings.
Many of us.
Maybe it’s at
work, maybe it is in ministry,
maybe it’s in sports.
A lot of people
just kind of
tend to be at similar skill levels,
and then they’ll come along.
Someone who really stands out
stands out above the rest.
Paul here, when he uses this word,
I have no one like him.
It’s real similar
to a word we used earlier.
I think it was over in
chapter two, verse two,
where he said, complete my joy
by being of the same mind.
We talked about how that word
was similar to this idea
of maybe
like a soulmate, same-
souled, linked at the soul.
And this still uses
that key idea of soul,
but it’s like sold similar.
So that’s again
this idea that we are so lined up
in the way
we approach ministry
and the way we approach life
that no one else quite gets it.
Paul is saying like I do, but Timothy.
I remember
when we served in ministry
on the college campus at U of L, Julie and
I served there
and plenty of kids passionate
about sharing with Christ with others,
plenty of kids
passionate about living for Christ
rather than for the world.
But there was this one guy,
Matt, who stood out above all the rest.
I mean, he was the preeminent
leader on the campus,
and he wasn’t even trying to lead.
He was just so infectious
in his enthusiasm and personality,
his energy,
his drive to tell others about Christ.
And that ministry flourished
almost solely because of him.
Of course,
Jesus working through everyone
and the Holy Spirit.
But he stood out.
We had no one else like him.
We had no one else,
and everyone else was great.
But he stood out as far above the others.
He was devoted at his very core,
and making sure
these students on
this campus are reached for Christ.
Paul says this about Timothy.
That’s the kind of person
you want to look to.
Someone who’s devoted, someone who cares.
That’s something
I pray for here at Valley View
when I pray for our new members,
I think we want people
who are fully devoted
followers of Jesus Christ.
We don’t want to just be kind of partway
halfway in.
And I get it, if that’s where you are.
But for our members,
for our people who have said,
this is my church, I’m all in.
We want fully devoted
followers of Christ.
That’s where you experience
your spiritual life to the fullest.
That’s where life flourishes.
The most joy is to be found devoted.
That’s who we look to.
So that’s the first quality
that he points out here.
Devoted. Second is genuine,
someone who has genuine concern.
He says this about Timothy in verse 20,
for I have no one like him
who will be genuinely concerned
for your welfare.
And look, that’s what
everyone wants in
someone that you are seeking to follow.
You want people around you
who are genuinely concerned for you.
There are some who are genuine
but not concerned.
There are some who are concerned
but not genuine.
You want the two together
genuinely concerned.
We looked at this when we studied
Romans chapter 12, verse nine.
Let love be genuine
and you know the difference.
One of the worship songs the students
sing is fake love.
This world is full of fake love.
We want the real thing.
This world is full of people pretending
to love you
and care about you, but they don’t.
This world is full of fake love.
We want genuine love, genuine concern.
That’s the kind of people
you want to pursue and be around
and here’s the hard
thing about genuine love.
Sometimes that requires us to
do the thing we wouldn’t want to do.
Sometimes that requires
that we say to one another,
I see this in your life,
and this isn’t good.
Genuine love requires truth.
You can’t avoid truth
if you really love someone now,
the truth should be delivered
in gentleness and kindness,
not as a stick to hurt someone with.
But it’s done in love to say
you are not experiencing
God’s best in your life.
If you continue down this path
that is part of genuine love.
Genuine concern is not just
avoiding truth.
So genuine.
This is Timothy.
This is the kind of person
to follow someone who loves genuine.
Number three
is that we should be Christ centered.
Look at verse 21 again.
I have no one – 20 and 21.
I have no one like him
who would be genuinely
concerned for your welfare,
for they all seek their own interests,
not those of Jesus Christ.
If you’re following anyone,
it should be
someone who is Christ centered,
but not as a show for their own interest.
Paul has pointed out here
a couple of times,
there are those who preach the gospel
out of selfish ambition.
They’re even in ministry primarily
for their own sake, which is sad to say.
It does happen.
One member of the church,
when we were talking about narcissist
told me.
He said, yeah, I’ve met a narcissist.
In fact,
I got to know him in Bible college.
It’s sad to say, but it’s true.
Some preach
the gospel out of selfish ambition
or vain conceit,
but who you should follow
is the one who has Christ
at the center of their life, Christ
at the center of all that they do.
They’re making it about him,
not themselves.
Christ centered.
Number four
is that he should be proven.
Someone you’re seeking to follow
should be proven.
You could add the word tested,
proven, tested.
You want to follow people
who’ve been through some stuff
and come out of it better and stronger.
They’ve experienced
some hard things in life.
Look back at verse 22 here.
You know, Timothy’s proven worth.
How as a son with a father
he served with me in the gospel,
not only Timothy,
but if you look down at verse 29,
receive him in the Lord with all joy.
This is about Epaphroditus,
honor such men, for
he nearly died for the work of Christ,
risking his life.
He’s been through some stuff,
he’s been through some hardships,
he’s been through some challenges,
and you’ve seen him come through him
still trusting Christ, still growing,
not cursing the Lord
and giving up on him.
Because I had a hard thing in my life.
He’s been proven and tested.
This was
a significant debate in the early church,
first couple hundred years of the church.
They went through
the seasons of persecution,
but then reprieve.
Roman government would persecute them,
but then they’d back off
depending on who was in power.
And what would happen during
the persecution is a whole
lot of people would be killed,
but also a lot of people
would get to the point of martyrdom
but deny their faith to get out of
martyrdom, to escape being a martyr.
And so and by the way,
many of the Christian leaders
came to see that the person most likely
to in the moment,
in the heat of the battle, in the moment
when it’s been put to them, either
deny your faith or be killed.
The person
most likely to deny their faith in
the moment
is the one who was most adamant
that they never would.
I will never– remember Peter with Jesus.
I will never deny you, Lord.
Now you’re going to three times, never.
Oh,
just a few hours later.
The big debate, though, was
what do we do with these folks?
Persecution waves over
and these folks
start coming back around the church,
many genuinely feeling bad
that they denied their faith.
What do we do?
Do we let them back in or not?
There was a big debate.
Some said no way, not ever.
That shows that they weren’t
truly Christian.
Others said, you know what?
I wonder what I would have done
in that moment.
And some people have asked me before,
what would you do
if someone came in
and said, Deny Christ or die?
And I said, I hope.
I hope God will give me the strength
to do the right thing in that moment.
I hope, I pray.
I also know
sometimes I try
to get out of the hard thing.
Lord, would you give me the strength
in that moment?
Okay,
huge debate,
but what the person you want to follow
as best as you can
is the person who it is proven,
who is tested, who has shown
they know how to endure.
They’ve been through the hard thing,
they know what it means,
and they’re still turning to Christ.
Proven. Tested. Number five,
we want someone
who is willing to be accountable.
Someone who doesn’t have a problem
submitting to accountability,
someone who doesn’t have a problem
of having a spiritual authority
over them.
In fact,
someone who
understands the value of that,
who relishes that, the value
of having a mentor,
the value of having someone older
than you to pour into you,
someone who has wisdom.
If you look at how Paul describes
Timothy in verse 22,
he says, proven worth how as a son
with a father,
he served with me in the gospel.
It’s a clear pecking order here.
He– Paul’s
the father in the relationship,
Timothy’s the son.
Timothy is the one who is to submit
to Paul’s direction.
But listen, I love
how he describes this here.
He also says
he served with me in the gospel.
I think those are some of the best
and probably the best mentoring type
relationships where there is
this side by side
element, rather than just that.
You’ll do what I said top down element.
We’re serving together,
we’re sharpening one another.
We’re actually learning from one another.
An older person is encouraged
by the enthusiasm of the young.
The young gets the encouragement,
the wisdom of the old.
We work together that way.
That’s why
at the men’s retreat, the leader there
kept hounding over and over again.
You got to be intergenerational.
Older men have got to be around
younger men.
You’ve got to be sharpening one another.
It works both ways.
And Timothy shows
I’m willing to say I don’t know it all.
I can follow the leadership of another
and a good follower
will make a good leader.
That’s the kind of person
you want to look to follow yourself.
Someone who’s not above that.
They can take the second stage seat.
It’s okay. They’re okay with that.
Accountable.
Number five.
Now number six,
someone who is willing to go,
willing to serve.
If you look at verse 23,
this is hinted at in this verse.
I hope, therefore to send him
just as soon as I see
you, I will go with me.
I trust the Lord, that shortly
I myself will come also.
Timothy was already known
for being sent places.
The book of first and second
Timothy were written to Timothy,
who was in Ephesus
working to serve the church.
There.
Timothy was seen as someone
who’s I’m ready to go.
Send me out.
Where do you need me? I’ll go.
And we need to have that kind of mindset,
that kind of heart,
that kind of attitude.
Like in Isaiah, where who can we send,
Lord, here I am.
Send me –that willingness.
And by the way, that’s scary, right?
A lot of times
we we don’t
necessarily
want to put ourselves out there
that far and go, yeah, Lord, I’ll,
I’ll go wherever you send me.
Oh, Lord, I’d like to pray about
wherever you might
present to me
and see if that’s best
for my plan for life or not.
That can be hard.
It can be scary.
He might call you to go somewhere.
In fact,
he probably will call you to go somewhere
that you wouldn’t
have chosen on your own.
And you know what that may mean.
Most of us think he’ll want me
to go to the jungles of Africa.
No.
He may just want you to go
across the street.
That might be scarier.
Actually,
it might be easier to go off to Africa
than to that person across the street.
But we’ve got to be willing.
Let there be a willing heart.
That’s the kind of person
you want to follow.
Where you see that about him.
What is it, Lord? I’m ready. Let’s go.
Willingness to go now.
Number seven,
you want to follow
someone who is trustworthy.
The qualities of the commendable.
Someone who is trustworthy.
Now, the whole occasion of this letter
having been written was that it
part for us who Paul mentions here?
The first half is talking about Timothy,
the second is about Epaphroditus.
The whole occasion of the letter
is that the Philippians apparently
put together a financial gift
and sent it to Paul
through Epaphroditus.
And so
you can look over on your own later.
Chapter four, verse 18, he says,
thanks for the gift from Epaphroditus.
I appreciate it.
What this
shows is that Epaphroditus was trustworthy
because he wasn’t taking him
a cashier’s check.
He was taking gold coins
a thousand miles.
This guy was trustworthy.
You could put that money in his hand.
And, you know, every penny
penny would get to Paul.
We knew this about him with utmost
confidence.
You want to follow
someone who is trustworthy.
And the more I serve in ministry,
the more that’s a pretty hard and fast
line for me in terms of people
I’m serving with in leadership.
Do I trust them or not?
Of course,
we all, especially
if you’re new to church,
there’s going to be areas of growth.
Trust is going to be one of them.
But what if I’m serving side by side?
We’ve got to be able to trust one another
to trustworthiness.
Can I trust your word?
I’ve served with people,
said one thing to my face
and they turn around,
say the exact opposite to someone else
an hour later.
What are we doing?
What are we doing here?
Not here.
I’m not talking about here.
Trustworthy.
Now trust takes time to build.
We all know this.
It can be lost quickly
and it takes a lot of time to build.
So you’ve got to be patient with those,
especially who are new in the faith
immature in the faith.
We’re going to do dumb things.
We’re not going to do everything right.
It takes time. It’s small decisions.
Luke 16:10.
The one who is faithful
in a little thing
will also be faithful with much.
But we stay committed
and we keep persevering
to become trustworthy.
And now the next one,
trustworthy and transformed.
You want to follow the person
whose life has been transformed by Jesus.
They have a pre-Jesus story
and you wonder,
is that even the same person?
The guy who spoke
at the men’s conference, Tim Brown,
kept talking about that. Guys,
I’ve done everything
and I’ve tried it twice,
and I tried to get
as good as I could at it.
And that’s no longer who I am, he said.
I pray often that my kids don’t
remember the angry person that I was.
Transformed.
Here’s how we know this, Epaphroditus.
We just know it by his name.
His name.
If you look at it, you’ve
probably heard of the Greek
goddess Aphrodite.
Epaphroditus.
You hear her name in his name,
which means likely
his parents would have been worshipers
of Aphrodite,
or at least Greek gods in general,
naming their own child after a Greek god.
By the way,
it probably meant something
It probably meant something like beloved of Aphrodite.
Aphrodite
was the goddess of love and beauty.
It probably meant something
along the lines of handsome.
So he’s label.
He’s lived with that label
his whole life.
I am favored of Aphrodite.
I’m la… I’m handsome.
That is what has been given to him.
That is the legacy.
That is the spiritual legacy
that has been given to him.
But here’s the key phrase to remember
because he’s not living that out
now, he’s
living as a Christ follower now,
fully devoted,
committed, risking
his life for the sake of the cross.
And here’s the key phrase to remember
because I don’t know
what your background is.
I don’t know what spiritual legacy
you were given or not given,
but your past,
both the decisions you’ve made
and the things maybe others
have given you or done to you.
It doesn’t have to define you.
Epaphroditus
didn’t let it define him.
I guess this is who I’ll always be.
And he even kept that name.
Your past
doesn’t have to have to define you now.
It may help describe you.
Oh, I see why he’s that way
now. If I had been through that.
Yeah, I would struggle with that too.
But it doesn’t have to define you.
He didn’t have to stay
a worshiper of Greek gods.
He trusted that
Christ could move in his life
and he could be transformed.
Trustworthy.
Transformed.
Number nine,
the kind of person you want to
follow is honored and valued.
Look at verse 25
and the way that Paul describes Epaphoditus.
In fact, he uses five different
honorary titles
honorifics here, which,
by the way, is
unparalleled in Paul’s letters.
He doesn’t do that for anyone else.
There are other places where he does
give a number of titles. Here,
lumps them together, heavy collection.
I have thought it necessary
to send to you Epaphroditus,
my brother, my fellow worker,
my fellow soldier, and your messenger
and minister to my need.
Each of these titles
we could unpack for a while.
I’ll mention one.
How many of you like to go to Sunergos
Coffee?
Anybody like to go
to that local Louisville coffee shop?
That’s the same word
here as fellow worker.
That’s actually a Greek word
that they used to name that coffee shop.
Sun with Ergo, works- working together,
fellow worker,
I see him as someone
side by side in the work.
And this next title, fellow soldier
has that idea as well.
In fact,
it would have been a technical term
to describe someone that you served
arm in arm, side by side with in battle.
And by the way, in terms of people
who have the deepest connection
personally in life,
there’s usually no one
more deeply connected
than someone who served side by side
on the battlefield.
This kind of title, especially as Colby
talked about in a Roman colony
where we had a lot of veterans,
former Roman soldiers, settled there.
This is a title
that would have meant a lot to them.
In fact, we know that that whole city
of Philippi really valued titles.
Let me tell you how important I am.
Here’s my title. Here’s another title.
And he’s saying to them, this
is a guy you need to follow.
This is a guy that Paul respects.
And look,
if you want to know who to follow,
who are other people following?
Who are other people valuing?
Who do other people honor?
That’s the kind of person to look to.
And now the last one
here, number ten.
You want to follow the person.
And this is what we’re all called to do
is to walk by faith,
follow the person who walks by faith.
And we saw that modeled
in Epaphroditus.
Look back at verse 30.
He nearly died for the work of Christ,
risking his life to complete
what was lacking in your service to me?
Epaphroditus
was willing to take a risk
for the sake of the gospel.
Just traveling with money in that day
and age would have been very dangerous.
He didn’t just hop on
the interstate and dash there quickly.
No, no, no,
this would have been a journey
primarily by foot,
and there would have been people ready
to relieve you
of your cares and goods at any moment.
Not only that, but he’s a Christian,
going to see
Paul in prison
in Rome, in prison for his Christianity.
There’s a lot of risk in that.
All of life as a Christian
is full of calculated risk.
All of life is.
There’s no escaping risk.
We’re called to walk by faith,
even in things that are risky.
Even when we served in missions.
You know, you want to
you know that there’s some risk
involved in moving overseas.
And we went to about the safest place
you can go to do missions
in our mind probably was Fiji
in the South Pacific.
And you think, yeah, John,
big risk for the gospel there.
But look,
I remember one day sitting in my office
and I hear wailing,
the deepest wailing you could hear.
And I look out the window
down from our house at the bus stop,
and a mother is pulling her daughter out
from under a car
who had just been ran over
and she was dead, nine years old.
Risk is everywhere.
You’re never going to escape it.
800 people a year die
on the interstates in Kentucky.
Just driving to work.
Just another day.
Risk is everywhere.
The question is, will we walk by faith,
not avoid risk?
We walk by faith.
And I’m not talking about living
so recklessly
that you’re throwing your life away.
You know what I’m talking about.
We don’t walk in fear.
We walk by faith.
So huge difference.
These are the kind of people
you want to follow
when you see these qualities in someone.
That’s the kind of person to go.
I want to be like them.
How do I get time around you?
What can I do?
How can I get around you?
And I want to do something
a little different
at the end of the service today,
because Paul has commended to them
two people. Timothy, and Epaphroditus.
I want to commend someone to you
right now, in just a second.
I have someone come up
and speak to you,
to speak to all of us, to speak to me.
Someone who is respected in the church,
someone who is proven,
someone who is trustworthy.
We could go down this list of qualities.
We just wrapped up
our previous fiscal year.
Quick update on that.
We did end up voting the new budget in,
and I asked that folks give to help us
finish off the year in the
in the positive if possible.
And we did end up $50,000
short of our need for last year total
at the end of the day
between expenses and giving.
And that’s a lot.
Okay, that’s not ideal,
but I looked back at the previous year.
The previous year, we ended up
$213,000 short.
So that was a big improvement.
That’s a big praise, right?
Yeah.
We’re always
looking for something to praise.
That’s a big praise.
That’s an improvement.
That’s pointed the right direction.
But given that this letter,
the occasion of this letter
was through a gift I thought it would be,
this would be a good moment
because there’s no one more passionate
about giving in our church
than Larry Peercy.
And so, Larry,
if you don’t mind
coming up, he’s agreed to just share
with us for a couple of
minutes about his passion.
Thank you
Larry.
Well, he said I had 5 to 10 minutes,
but it looks like
I’ve got about 1 or 2 minutes.
But I’m going to I’m going
to sort of jump
into the middle of my, testimony about,
giving and tithing.
I started,
teaching Sunday school
when I was 20 years old.
And of course, in teaching,
you run across some things that,
you
probably have to deal with.
And I started coming under conviction
because we were not tithers
we gave regularly to the church,
but we didn’t tithe.
And I began to feel this conviction.
And a few years we decided,
some of you may have belonged
to a church that passed
cards around
to make a commitment for the budget.
And, we did that,
and we committed to tithe for a year.
And and so we set into that year, and we
we started tithing,
but we had three little kids
and we weren’t
making a whole lot of money.
And so before long,
we were getting behind in our tithing.
And I remember at the end of the year,
going to the bank
and borrowing money to catch up my tithe.
And so I said, this isn’t working.
And so we went back to just giving.
In 1966,
in October,
we got transferred to Somerset, Kentucky.
And so I knew
we were going into a new church.
And we’re going into a new situation.
And so Sharlett and I prayed about it,
and I told her,
I said, we’re going to start tithing, but
we’re going to write the check
to the church first, and then we will
if if we’re not able to pay
the bills, I’ll call the people myself
and tell them
that they’ll be first next month
to get their money.
And, you know,
I guess
I didn’t really know
that I was stepping into God’s
plan for giving.
At that time, I don’t think I knew
that there was,
about 30 references
in the Bible to firstfruits,
and so but there was a couple of verses
in the book of Haggai
that got a hold of me,
and they really dealt with me.
And I want to read those to you
in Haggai, chapter one, verse six,
he says, you’ve sown much,
but harvest little.
You eat,
but there’s not enough to be satisfied.
Invest in verse nine, he says, you
look for much
but behold, it comes to little.
And when you bring it
home, I blow it away.
That
probably hasn’t
ever meant anything to you.
But what that said to me
was, this is exactly
what’s been happening to you.
You like you can’t make enough
to to please God with your giving.
If you take care
of all your other needs first.
But when we started writing the check
to the church first,
we never did.
I never did have to call anybody
and tell them
that they were going to get paid
the next month.
During this time in Somerset,
I was teaching
again and I had a visitation partner
and we would go out,
visit people that had visited the church
and, that his name was Ray Carroll.
He was an All-American football player
at the University of Kentucky
during the Bear Bryant years.
And he was big,
he was an offensive lineman
and he was bold.
And I learned some things from him.
He would go knock on the door,
and if you didn’t answer, he’d
go around, knock on the back door,
he would knock on the windows.
He’d holler,
and and if you were home,
you had to come answer him.
And the first thing he’d want to know is,
if you were a Christian
and, you know,
I was struggling to ask you
if you went to church,
you know, but he said,
are you a Christian?
And then he’d say, are you baptized?
Have you been baptized?
And then he’d say, do you tithe?
And I remember him saying over
and over, you know, if you don’t tithe,
you try it for three months,
and if you don’t believe in tithing
after three months,
you come tell me
and I’ll give you your money back.
Now, I never did
get bold enough
to get to that point,
and I never felt like God
was telling me to do that.
But I did learn some things
through this period of time,
and one of the things I learned was that,
I was at peace
now because I felt like that
I was totally, totally,
willing to follow God.
And I don’t know if it’s been that way
with you, but with me,
the money, I guess, was the hardest thing
for me to deal with.
And when I got there,
then I felt like that
I was right with him.
And then I started noticing
some other things.
God met all of our needs.
I mean, I learned that
God could meet your needs just as easy
by decreasing them
as he could by giving you more money.
And so what happened was
we would get to the end of the month
and we were we still had money.
And and then I started
seeing some
some contests won
and some different things.
Money coming in from other ways.
And the first thing I knew was that
I was I
we were able to give more than a tithe
and we enjoyed giving.
We were excited about giving.
And one of the things that
we noticed is that
I didn’t get upset
when the
preacher was talking about money,
you know, you know, you hear people say,
if you do any visiting,
then you hear people say,
every time I go to church,
they’re talking about money.
Well, it didn’t bother me anymore.
I, I told the pastor
he can preach on tithing
every Sunday, you know, that’s fine.
It’s what touched our hearts.
And it’s what got us,
right with the Lord.
There’s some other things,
and I know
we don’t have a lot of time, but,
I remember learning
that giving was God’s idea, wasn’t …
it wasn’t the church’s idea.
Wasn’t the preacher’s idea.
It was God’s,
back in Genesis four Cain
and Abel brought gifts to God.
So how do you think they learned that?
Well,
they must have learned it
from their parents.
And maybe it was
when God was walking with Adam and Eve
in the cool of the day that,
he told them about that.
But
but I learned that that was God’s plan.
I learned that God owns it all.
You know, we’re just stewards.
There’s a passage in,
in,
And I won’t read it
because I’m sure you’re familiar with it,
but it’s in Malachi
that says, Will a man rob God?
And that used to really bother me
because I wondered, how can we rob God?
I mean, if God can take
five loaves of bread
and feed 5000 people,
he if he needs some money,
he could zap up some money really easy.
You know how, how can how can we rob God
and and and then
it was much later that I guess
God gave me that insight that that what,
what he was talking about
is that we were robbing God
of the
privilege of blessing us,
because God wants to bless his children.
And but God
is
totally holy
and he cannot abide sin.
So if we’re disobedient
in any way,
we’re outside of of
of God’s blessing
because God,
God doesn’t change.
And I know these verses, I’ve read to you
are in the Old Testament,
but that passage in Malachi
is only two pages away
from the New Testament.
And in my Bible, it’s
only four pages away from where
Jesus himself said,
I didn’t come to do away with the law.
I came to fulfill the law.
And it was Jesus who said,
you know
that it’s more blessed
to give than receive.
It was it was
Jesus that that kept talking about,
the things that that,
we’re supposed to do with money.
He told 38 parables in,
in the gospels,
and 16 of them
have to do with money and finances.
So.
So what do you do with
your money is important.
And I believe that that God
wants us to return
his tithe.
We can’t pay a tithe.
We can bring the tithe.
Everywhere in Scripture
talks about tithing.
It talks about them bringing the tithe.
I believe that,
tithing was a part of the law,
but I believe that tithing
is a part of grace too.
And Jesus raised the bar
on every area that they dealt with
above the law
when he said,
even if you’re just angry with a person,
you’re guilty of of murder.
So so he he raised the bar.
And I think that that tithing
is just simply
telling God, yeah, I trust you.
And and yeah,
I’ll bring it first
because it doesn’t take any faith
to give the tithe after
after you’ve taken care
of all your own needs
and still have money left over,
there’s no faith involved there.
For the farmers
that were bringing the grains
and their cattle and their sheep,
to give the first took an act of faith.
And and without faith,
you can’t please God.
So I would encourage you
to look
look carefully at what God’s Word says
about giving and about tithing.
And I believe that,
you know, God obviously
doesn’t need our money.
I mean, it’s not about
God about to go broke.
And if you don’t,
turn loose of some money,
he’s going to he’s going to suffer.
That’s not it at all.
It’s about us.
It’s about what we need
so that God can bless us.
And I challenge you
to let him bless you in this way.
Thank you.
