January 28, 2024 |
Sunday Morning
Ten Habits for Spiritual Life Part Four
John C. Majors |
Romans 12:1
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We’ve been working through
this series on building spiritual habits
in our lives.
Ten Spiritual Habits
for Life is what we’ve called it.
And of course, the idea behind
that is what we just saw on screen.
How do you make small changes
in your life that over time,
sometimes imperceptibly
lead to big results eventually?
One example I’ve heard shared about
that is take a block of ice.
A block of ice
that’s in a room that’s at 29 degrees.
And you began to raise
the temperature of the room
just a 10th of a degree every hour or so.
And at first, nothing is different.
Another hour goes by, many hours
go by 30 degrees.
No difference.
31 no difference,
32, 33.
Now, all of a sudden, seemingly
out of nowhere,
that ice begins to melt.
Small, almost imperceptible
changes over time.
And of course, we want to apply that
to the spiritual habits in our life.
What are the things we do that
help us grow spiritually over time?
That’s what
we’ve been focused on
and we’ve been talking
through the word habit,
and we’re up now to the letters T
and S to kind of wrap up our series today
on the ten spiritual habits
we want to develop in our lives.
So today
we’re going to be looking at the letter
T to start with,
and we’ve been in Romans chapter 12.
That’s been our base passage
as we’ve unpacked this, as
we’ve pressed into this
because I love
having one passage
to come back to over and over again.
Hopefully even in your own
personal spiritual
growth, in your own quiet
time,
you’re able to come back to this passage
day in and day out afterwards
and see some of these spiritual truths
and habits
that you want to build in your own life.
And so today we’re going to be looking at
Romans chapter 12,
and we’re going to be in verse one,
Romans chapter 12, verse one.
We’ve looked at most of the rest
of the other chapter,
but I skipped over verse
one to begin with
because of what
we’re going to talk about today.
And if you have a church Bible
that’s on page 891,
if you don’t have a Bible,
we’d love to put one in
your hands- they are free for you. They are
out in the connection corner,
those page numbers on the screen tie
in specifically with that Bible
that we have here for you.
So slip out any time,
grab one, slip back in.
We’ll be reading from that Bible.
ROMANS Chapter 12, verse one
because of the topic.
We’re going to start by unpacking.
First thing we’re going to talk
about is the letter T-
treasure the
savior in worship.
That’s the eighth habit
you want to develop that we talk about
in this list of ten treasure,
the savior in worship.
Let’s look at Romans
chapter 12, verse one and
and read about this.
I appeal to you, therefore, brothers,
by the mercies of God,
to present your bodies
as a living sacrifice,
wholly and acceptable to God,
which is your spiritual worship.
All right.
First couple of words
here to address and talk about.
The first one is
just the word, therefore.
And if you’ve been in church
any amount of time,
you may have heard this phrase
you ask
when you’re studying the Bible,
what is the therefore, there for?
Why is it there?
What is it pointing toward?
Usually it’s the previous verse,
the previous idea,
maybe the previous couple of verses.
But it’s interesting
in this passage,
combined with the word appeal
that only shows up a few other places.
Also in Ephesians
chapter four,
which is a key
transition verse
for the book of Ephesians here,
Many believe that this
therefore is pointing to the entirety
of the rest of the book of Romans.
Therefore, because of Chapters
one through 11,
which walks through God’s
sovereignty and salvation,
his greatness in salvation,
his greatness
in overcoming our rebellion
against him, his greatness in loving us.
Therefore,
because of all of that, I appeal to you.
And what does he say? What’s his appeal?
How should we live? What does it say?
Present your bodies
as a living sacrifice.
Now that word living
is an important distinction.
Because if you look
at the history of sacrifices,
that wasn’t usually the case.
We go back to the Old Testament.
What was the role of a sacrifice?
It was to die.
So what’s a living sacrifice?
How is that different?
It’s an important distinction.
We want to know that
that’s what we’re called to do,
is to live in a way
that is sacrificially.
We’re giving our lives to Christ
in a way that our life is not our own.
We’re living it for him as we live.
We live in a way that honors him.
And all of this
here leads us
to this treasure of the Savior
in worship,
this phrase he uses as a living sacrifice
wholly acceptable to God,
which is your spiritual worship.
We need to talk about that phrase
a little bit, because those
those two words
are interesting to use together,
and it seems a little redundant
to call something spiritual worship.
I mean, isn’t that
what we were doing this morning
worshiping?
Isn’t all worship inherently spiritual?
Well, yes, at one level maybe.
But you’ve
certainly heard
some of the quotes out there
about our nature.
The nature of our hearts
is that if we don’t worship
God, you will worship something.
We are hardwired for
worship is how I’ve heard it said
and understanding that word worship
really just the English word worship.
You could break it down into worth ship
assigning worth to something,
ascribing value to something.
And so that’s kind of
what we’re doing here
in the mornings
when Andrew leads us in worship.
That’s one
aspect of how we worship as we sing.
And when we’re doing
that, we’re ascribing worth to God.
We’re telling him how great he is
over and over again
in dozens of different ways.
And and of course,
we also talk about ourselves.
We say, Here’s
what we need, here’s what I’m feeling.
But overarching above that is how great
he is.
Here’s how great you are.
Now, we don’t do that
because he needs to hear it.
He knows.
Who needs to hear it more than God?
We need to hear over and over again
how great he is. That’s why we worship.
That’s why we cry out,
God, you are the greatest.
But our temptation is to worship
other things.
If you’ve read the story.
Picture of Dorian Gray.
It’s an old novel, over 100 years old.
Oscar Wilde wrote it.
In that story
Dorian has his portrait painted.
Young man, attractive, well-known,
well-liked, kind of aristocratic,
moving in those circles,
has his portrait painted,
and the artist finishes, turns it around,
and he sees his own portrait
and he falls in love
with his own portrait.
He begins to worship his own portrait
because he sees in that moment the beauty
and youth
that he so longs for and he recognizes
I will not always be this way.
This is a snapshot of
just a moment in time,
and from here on out, it’s all downhill.
And so what he does
is he vows to himself,
I will do whatever it takes
to stay in that state,
to stay just like that picture.
I’ll do whatever it takes
and the story goes
to some
dark places and really ultimately,
absolutely decays his soul.
We’re called to
worship God alone.
Other things vie for our affections,
but he’s the one we’re called
to worship above all else.
There is nothing else we’re called
to worship.
That’s a daily battle.
That’s a daily
struggle.
One of the things
that helps us understand
what it means to worship
is that word spiritual worship.
If you look back at verse
one, living sacrifice
wholly acceptable to God,
which is your spiritual worship,
that word for spiritual,
there’s not our normal word
you would see for spiritual
the word behind it
in the original language.
It’s not the normal one.
You see for spiritual in fact,
it only shows up in Scripture
one other place.
And prior to this it
was mainly used by philosophers
in Greek history.
Greek philosophers would use this
to mean something like,
That’s a true argument,
That’s a worthy argument.
You made a valid point, a logical point.
In fact, where it shows up in Scripture,
The other place it shows up,
it says the pure milk of the word.
1 Peter 2:2
It is the pure, the spiritual, the right,
the accurate, the trustworthy
word.
And so when we
think of our act of worship
as true, as right, as pure,
all of this is pointing to the reality
that worship is not just the words we say
or the words sing,
but it’s really part of who we are.
It’s part of what’s
going on in our heart.
And ultimately it’s how we live
sacrificially, as
it says here in this passage.
So letter T, the first habit,
spiritual habit we want to develop today.
And by the way,
you should have got a handout
when you were coming in today.
This has all the spiritual habits
we’ve covered
and are going to cover today,
plus some of the habit
building tips,
plus a couple of questions
for you to process.
I’m going to talk about
this more at the end.
But over four weeks,
you may not have remembered
everything we’ve covered. That’s okay.
I might not either,
but it’s on here
for you to refer back to.
And so the first one today
that we discussed was
treasure your savior in worship.
Now the next spiritual habit, actually
the other two
to wrap up the series that we’re going
to address flow from that.
If we’re called to worship,
if we’re called
to treasure the savior in worship.
I want to talk about two things
related to that.
How do we do that?
And then what does worship produce in us?
How do we worship?
What does worship produce?
So what we’re going to address
as we deal with the other two spiritual
habits we want to develop.
So first, how do we worship?
I’m just going to talk about
one aspect of worship that I think
is underutilized in our age.
Yes, we gather here.
Yes, we sing.
Yes, we worship through God’s word.
Yes, we worship
also through giving and serving.
But I think we need to embrace
safeguarding the Sabbath.
How do we worship: Safeguard the Sabbath.
That’s letter
S in our habits
words, safeguard the Sabbath.
Now, why is
that important for worship?
The Sabbath,
interestingly enough,
I read in a, John Mark Comers his name,
He wrote in–
he was talking about the Sabbath
and he said the Sabbath command
in Scripture.
It’s longer
than any of the other commands.
You know,
some of them are just three
or four words,
whereas this one’s 130 words,
long command,
one of the longest
it is the longest command.
And it’s interesting,
this command is the only one that gives
you kind of the reason
why you should–
not the results, but the reason why
the basis
for why you should observe the Sabbath.
And it simply says
because the Lord rested.
Now, we don’t view the Sabbath
as a legalistic thing,
as New Testament Christians.
It’s not a legalistic thing,
but to deny
the need for rest based on the pattern
that was set with God
when he created the world
in six days and rested on the seventh
to ignore that.
That’s a dangerous thing.
So it’s not a legalistic thing,
but it’s an important thing.
What does observing the Sabbath,
safeguarding the Sabbath,
keeping the Sabbath
look like for you today?
One thing’s for sure
if you don’t make it a priority,
it won’t happen.
We’ve got too much else screaming
for time and attention.
How do you make it a priority?
I want to give you three things
to prioritize on the Sabbath.
Three things
and this will help set the tone
for how you spin the Sabbath.
Go and put those up on the screen.
Three things
to prioritize on the Sabbath,
rest, worship
and relationships.
Start by just asking
the Lord, Lord,
how can I prioritize rest, worship
and relationships?
Too many times
after church on Sunday,
we fill up the day
with all the normal activities of life.
But pick just a window of
time in your life and, look– again,
not a legalistic thing.
I don’t know what your life looks like.
I know some people
have to work on Sunday. I get that.
I don’t really.
I promise
I don’t look down on you for that.
I work on Sunday.
Okay.
So do what you can,
but carve out the time.
What does your Sabbath look like?
Be intentional with it.
How can I be more intentional to rest,
to not just be driven
along by all the needs
and desires of the world, to say no
to some things that I might normally say
yes to to rest?
How can I be intentional to worship,
to turn off some things
that might distract me from worship,
to read things
that draw me toward worship?
How can I focus on relationships?
By connecting with my loved ones
that we’ve probably neglected each other
throughout the week, and rightfully so.
We have busy lives.
We have things we have to tend to.
How can I
focus on rest, worship,
relationships on the Sabbath?
Begin to just ask him, Lord, what?
How can I safeguard the Sabbath?
What would you have me do?
Just start by simply asking him
and see what he says.
You don’t have to change everything
all at once.
What’s just one simple change
you can make
to begin safeguarding, observing,
keeping the Sabbath.
I’m not going to list out
a bunch of things for you to do
because we really don’t
want to make it a legalistic thing here.
We don’t have a list of TV shows
you can
or can’t watch or places a TV can’t be,
or whether you can own one or not,
or what devices you can have or or can’t.
We don’t.
We don’t do that.
Now.
I have strong feelings
about what I think you could do,
but it’s my opinion.
It’s not a legalistic thing.
Rest, worship,
relationships,
safeguard the Sabbath for worship.
That’s one of the ways
we begin to keep the Sabbath.
And actually, I heard one guy
say it’s an act
of resistance against our culture.
I love that phrase.
All of the world says, Do more,
be more active.
Go, go, go, go, go.
And everybody’s burned out
and anxious and tired
and frustrated
and disconnected from one another
and disconnected from the Lord.
Safeguard the Sabbath.
We all need margin in life.
Look,
even at a secular level,
studies have shown
if you work more than about 50 hours
a week, productivity goes down, errors
go up.
We’re not
above God’s created order.
When we served as missionaries
in the South Pacific,
we lived in this harbor town
and it was kind of the main port city
for all of the South Pacific.
Many people would come there
and there was a number
of different places
that would work on ships,
repair, restore,
So they would come park
there, enjoy the island area
and have their ship worked on.
But you couldn’t really see
what was going on in the shipyards
from the main road that passed them all.
You just see these big buildings.
One day we take a boat out on the trip
into the harbor
and we go past all these buildings
on our way out of the harbor
and you could just see, here’s
one boat up out of the water on stilts.
Here’s another up out of the water,
another up out of the water, boat
after boat
after boat
after boat, up
out of the water, because,
yes, they were having repairs made, but
every once in a while you got to stop.
You’ve got to shut that thing down
and have all the barnacles
cleaned off the bottom of your boat,
because if not, it literally
can make your boat almost useless,
just the animals
growing along their boat.
And if you don’t pause
and stop and clean that stuff off,
eventually you won’t be able to go.
And I think some of us have been there.
I went til I couldn’t go no more,
but the daily, weekly
activity of Sabbath
will restore your Soul.
So that’s how we worship.
One way we worship,
safeguard the Sabbath.
And then now
what does worship produce in us?
What does worship produce in us?
For this last habit,
when we think about worshiping
and what it produces in us?
The letter T,
the final thing we’re going
to cover is trust.
When I am worshiping God,
I learn to trust His sovereignty more
and more and more.
Now, I think that plays out in two ways
in this passage
that we’re going to look at,
at the last section
of the chapter versus
last eight verses 14 through 21
sets up this whole idea
of how worship
produces trust in his sovereignty
two key ways.
In fact, the first one is it produces
kindness towards our enemies.
Look at this here
in verse 14,
when we’re trusting in his sovereignty,
it produces
kindness towards our enemies, Verse 14
Bless those who persecute you,
bless and do not curse them.
Rejoice with those who rejoice,
weep with those who weep, live in harmony
with one another.
Do not be haughty,
but associate with the lowly.
Never be wise in your own sight
repay no one evil for evil,
but give thought to do
what is honorable on the side of all.
If possible,
so far as it depends on you
live peaceably with all.
When we worship, we trust
in God’s sovereignty
and that produces
kindness towards our enemies.
I love this opening verse.
Bless
those who persecute you, bless
and do not curse them.
You know,
it’s one thing to bless
someone who’s just difficult.
I mean, you’ve probably had that
angry neighbor, crotchety old neighbor
who is hard to love on. By the way,
not any of my neighbors.
I’m not talking about my neighbors.
But you know what I mean.
You’ve lived in some other neighborhood
where that’s happened
and it’s hard to love on that person.
But you figure it out.
You maybe do
go out of your way
to do something for them,
something small.
But how do you bless those
who aren’t just difficult but are
persecuting you?
They aren’t just hard to be around.
They hate you, they hate the sight of you.
They would never be
happier than if you didn’t exist.
Bless those?
It’s sad to say,
but we lived almost 20 years
in Little Rock,
and I never I’d heard of the story
of the Little Rock Nine.
Are you familiar with that?
The first group of African-Americans
in Little Rock
who were integrated
into the school system,
1957?
I’d heard that that happened.
I’d seen pictures.
I’ve shown photos of that of white people
yelling at the black one
black woman as she’s walking in.
But I’d never actually read their story
until this week.
I read the book of one of the ladies
who went through that
and what she endured every single day
as a 15 year old black girl, every
single day
show up to school
and someone sprays
ink on your clothes every day
between every class, someone is behind
you stepping on your heels
till they bleed
and someone is in front of you
tripping, you stepping on your feet
between every class, every day
and every time you go down a stairwell,
someone is pushing you, trying
to get you to tumble down the stairs
every time, every day,
every hour, and in every class.
Everyone is calling you lovely names.
You can imagine many of the words
that were used all through class.
Teachers aren’t standing up every day.
The author of this book in particular
said it was her family
that continue to say to her, bless them,
bless,
bless, but you don’t know
what I’m going through. Bless
be a peacemaker.
And reading her story, how she became
the best actor
of all time
in terms of being able to say thank you.
When someone throw a golf ball at her.
Thank you.
I’ve never had a golf ball before.
Thank you.
As someone shoves the door on her,
she can’t get out. She’s stuck in a room.
Thank you.
You’ve caused me to exert extra energy
and thus strengthening my arms.
I needed that today.
Thank you.
Who does that?
Bless
those who persecute you.
That’s the call When we worship him
that rightly orders our lives.
Bless those who persecute you.
Here’s how else this looks.
Look at the next verse.
Rejoice with those who rejoice.
Weep with those who weep.
Now,
this is a hard one
because how many times is it
the opposite?
Even with some of your closest friends?
How many times?
Well, that
good friend does
just a little bit better in school
and you’re upset about it
because they’re doing better than me
or that other friend
maybe gets the boyfriend or girlfriend
that you really wanted
and you really want to see him fail.
You want to see that
relationship fall apart
instead of rejoicing
with those who rejoice, weeping
with those who weep, sharing
in their joy together
and weeping with their sorrow.
And the hard part of this,
the context here is
even with your enemies.
Tim Keller talks about this.
He, I think, a helpful word to summarize
this is the word envy.
In fact, here’s how he defines envy.
Envy is being unhappy
at other people’s happiness.
Someone else has joy.
Man,
how dare they be so happy?
Why didn’t I get that?
It’s also the flipside of that
and being happy
at other people’s unhappiness.
You ever had that moment.
Something doesn’t go well for someone
and you get happy about it.
I was driving down the road one day.
College student, this annoying
high school girl was on my tail
inches from me.
I just gave her a nice little tap,
just the lights out,
just enough to say, Hey, back off.
There’s a kind of Christian tone to it.
I think just enough.
I wasn’t worried.
I was in my dad’s car.
It was okay, right.
The LTD we nicknamed it
the Valdez
because of how much oil it spilled.
And I’m pretty sure
it had an I-beam for the rear bumper.
It was so enormous
she didn’t like that.
Rushes back up on me again.
Another little tap, just a small one.
Just enough.
The road opens up.
We go from one line to two.
She comes flying up beside me.
By the way,
if you’re here today, I’m sorry.
I apologize in advance.
That was 30 years ago.
Comes flying up beside me
and I’m thinking,
oh no, what’s going to happen?
She is looking at me,
not at the stop lane,
the traffic ahead of her.
And the last thing heard was a large
crunching sound
as I continued on straight ahead
with just a hint of a smile
in that moment.
It felt good to see that happen.
Unfortunately, it felt so good.
Bless those
not just who annoy you.
Bless and do not curse.
Rejoice with those who rejoice.
I rejoiced with those who were weeping
in that moment.
How do we rejoice?
How do we
weep with those who weep?
That’s what we want to be moving toward.
There is so much in this section.
We could spend forever on it.
One word
I want to
highlight here
is the word harmony in verse
18,16, Live in harmony with one another.
Live in harmony with one another.
That’s such a good word.
It sums up the meaning behind that,
which means actually
what it says
is think the same thoughts
to one another.
Work to align your thoughts together.
But the interesting part about harmony,
it doesn’t mean conformity.
In fact,
I’m going to give you
an illustration of harmony.
Just listen
to this illustration of harmony.
We’re going to hear it right now.
I’ve got a couple of people
who are kind of outside of this room
or on the edge of this room
who are going to sing us
a little bit of harmony. Go ahead.
Why did you stop?
You know, I’m kidding.
Big breath.
Actually, I prerecorded that.
Those are all me. No.
Harmony, Here’s
the interesting thing about harmony.
Each person sings a different note,
but it’s actually more interesting.
That is, they all sing the same note.
But to do that,
you really have to work together.
You have to be very intentional
and actually you have to celebrate
that the other person
is a little different from you.
Harmony. Live in harmony
with one another,
move towards one another.
Worshiping produces that kind of heart,
that kind of attitude.
Now the other thing that worship does
so look here, Harmony,
bless those who persecute you
also notice in verse 18,
if possible, so far as it depends on
you live peaceably with all.
I love that phrase if possible,
because
there are times where you have done
all you can and it’s not enough.
That happens.
That’s okay.
If possible move towards forgiveness.
We’re called to be forgivers.
In fact, as Christians,
we’ve given up the right
to harbor
bitterness, anger, unforgiveness.
We don’t have that privilege.
Christ didn’t hold that towards us,
and we’re not called to hold it
towards others.
Now, forgiveness is complex.
It’s a very complex topic.
Forgiveness doesn’t necessarily
mean reconciliation.
Forgiveness is the first step
towards reconciliation.
It doesn’t guarantee reconciliation.
You can’t
control what the other person does.
And I know we have some recovering
control freaks in here, don’t we? Right.
Can I see a few hands
who are my recovering control freaks? Now,
I know the real control freaks
didn’t raise their hands
because that would be giving up control
in the moment.
There’s plenty we can’t control.
You can’t.
If possible.
So far as it depends on you.
Let it be known
that I went to the fullest
extent of what I could.
So worship
produces in us
the ability
to love our enemies,
to pursue our enemies.
And then here’s the other thing
it produces in us dependance
that God will work it all out.
He will work it all out.
Trust that He will work it all out.
Look at these last few verses.
Verse 19, beloved,
never avenge yourselves,
but leave it to the wrath of God, for
it is written.
Vengeance is mine.
I will repay, says the Lord.
To the contrary,
If your enemy is hungry, feed him.
If he’s thirsty, give
him something to drink
for
by so doing you will
heat burning coals on his head.
Do not become or do not be overcome
by evil, but overcome evil with good.
We know when we worship,
when we grow in our trust, in worship,
we know
God’s going to work it all out
In the end, vengeance is his.
He knows who really needs
vengeance.
He knows who really needs his justice
way better than we do.
That’s part of the reason
why this is so important.
All of this bless your enemies
talk, which,
depending on where you’re coming
from, sounds utterly insane.
Part of the reason is
you have no idea
where that other person is in their walk.
You have no idea how close
or how far they are from God.
You have no idea
if tomorrow
God touches them in a radical way.
We don’t know what’s going on
inside of them
and we could take some guesses sometimes,
but that’s the best it is.
There’s a guess.
There are some
who appear to be very close
to God who aren’t,
and there are some
who are very far from him
but are a whole lot closer
than you think.
And our role is to follow
what Scripture says, bless
don’t persecute, love, forgive.
If your enemy is hungry, feed him.
The dependence on God that he will work
it all out
Is part of the overflow of worship.
So those are the last three
spiritual habits.
Now, the other thing we’ve done
each week
is to talk about habit building.
How do you build
new habits into your life?
And I’ve given practical tips on how to do that.
Some of those are just general tips
you can apply to any area of life.
But I hope in the course of this study
you focus it on how do I build
new spiritual habits in my life.
That’s our hope.
How am I growing spiritually
through the little things I do?
So let me give you just a few more tips
for developing new habits.
Here’s the first one: Focus.
Focus on just one to begin with.
If you want to develop a new habit,
focus on just one.
Do not try to even do two
at the same time.
You’ve heard the saying
If you try to chase two rabbits,
you catch neither.
And it’s so true
of goals or habits. So true.
How do I develop just one new one?
Focus on just one new one.
If you want to have a chance,
just pick one.
I know we all want to do
ten new things at once,
and none of those get done
or not as well as they could have.
So focus. Number two,
take some time to track what you’re
trying to grow in, track the habit,
measurably track it somehow.
That’s why we have the Bible
reading plan with little check
boxes on it.
I love the feeling of checking off a box.
If something is done, I want to track it.
I want to know where am I?
Am I progressing or not?
There is a story Jerry
Seinfeld told a new– He was well
known comedian for many years, actor,
and he told the story of a young comedian
that came to him and said,
How do I get better?
I want to be like you.
I want to be on the TV shows.
I want to be the famous comedian.
How do I get better?
And he says to him, Here’s what you do.
You get one of those big wall calendars
that you put up on the wall
monthly calendar.
You see all the days. They’re huge.
Takes a big part of your wall.
You get the fattest Sharpie marker
you can get.
And each day you write just one joke,
write one new joke a day.
That’s it.
Make sure you write that one joke.
Write it as well as you can every day.
And when you finished writing that joke,
take Sharpie and put a big X on that day
and then do
it again the next day
and do it again the next day.
And he said,
and this is the phrase
that has stuck with me,
don’t break that chain,
just keep doing it.
Now, part of you goes
just one joke, really.
You’re going to be some world
changing comedian through that.
Well, at the end of the year,
you have 365 jokes.
That’s a full set.
And they‚Äôre quality, you’ve developed them.
Don’t break the chain.
Track it.
There’s a new habit you want to build.
Track it.
Am I actually doing it
or do I think I’m doing it?
We’ve all been there.
You know what I’m talking about.
All right.
Number three, this aligns with that.
Assess your time
in the midst of tracking the habits.
Assess your time.
Who are my Dave Ramsey fans in the room?
Many of you heard Dave
Ramsey, Financial Peace University.
You read his stuff
or listen to his radio show.
Yeah, I see a bunch of hands out here.
One of the quotes I love by him
is he says,
It’s easy to be irresponsible
when you don’t know where you stand.
How true is that?
You’re going to spend freely
when you don’t know
if I should or not,
or maybe eat freely
when I don’t know quite where I stand.
That applies to a lot of areas of life.
And how many times have we said,
I just don’t have time for that?
But if you actually take the time
to assess your time, you’ll find
you have probably
a lot more than you thought.
One writer–
throw that book cover on the screen–
this is a great book.
If you’re struggling with Sabbath
in particular,
this book, it might be hard to read.
No you can read it.
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
It’s a great book.
So many tips in there
written by a pastor.
It’s heavily focused on spiritual life.
How do I ruthlessly
eliminate hurry from my life?
But he talks about this in
terms of measuring time.
Now, bear with me at first, this is
going to seem a little overwhelming.
Bear with me, you’ll see the point.
The average American reads
200 to 400 words per minute.
Those are kind of the average
reading times
at that speed,
we could all read 200 books
a year, nearly twice
what he normally reads a year,
and just 417 hours,
which is just over an hour a day.
Now, again, that feels overwhelming.
Read an hour a day.
You got to be kidding me.
Are you kidding me?
I don’t read a minute a day.
How am I going to find
an hour a day to read?
Hang on.
Can you guess how much time the average
American spends on social media
each year?
The number is 705 hours.
That’s got to be way low
an hour a day,
a little over hour and a half hour.
You do the math.
What about TV?
2,737.5 hours
a year on average.
You see the point?
I don’t need to give you a guilt trip
on how you spend TV, social media.
You see the point.
Most of us allow, myself included,
allow our time
to be overtaken by other things.
How do we measure it accurately?
How do we put things in place
to help us regain that time,
not be led along by others?
Okay, that’s number three.
Number four, I love this one.
A friend of mine,
I saw him use this, point and state.
My friend Joey in the South Pacific,
trying to lose weight.
He was on a good journey.
Trying to lose 100 lbs.
He had lost about 50.
Still heading in the right direction.
And we were at this banquet
and they loved
to have these big banquets in Fiji.
And he walks in and he sees this platter
of all kinds of things
he shouldn’t be eating.
And he walks right up to
him and he goes, I see that cream bun,
I see it.
They’re tempting me,
but I’m not going to eat that cream bun.
I’m going to look at it,
enjoy looking at it,
and I’m going to walk out of the room.
That’s what he did.
Point and state.
How many times do
you just need to say it out loud?
I know this is
and you can do it the opposite.
This is a thing I’m going to do.
I know I need to do it.
Everybody listen.
I’m doing it.
Point and state.
Lastly, and it’s here
at the bottom of the page number 19
tips for developing new habits.
Do what you can and rest in that.
Any time
the temptation,
the challenge of talking
about habits as a church
is that you can end up feeling like
if I don’t change my whole life,
I’m worthless.
No, look, do what you can and rest in that.
I had a person share with me this week.
Okay,
I have been wanting
to get back into working out,
so I downloaded this workout app
and I did the first workout.
It was 13 minutes.
Now I can’t walk.
(Ha Ha.)
13 minutes.
I thought that wouldn’t be any big deal.
It’s like, Hey, you did something.
Do what you can,
do what you can and rest in that
The enemy wants to overwhelm me
with guilt for not doing enough.
That’s a great strategy of his. Do
what you can.
Rest in that, when you fail, move forward.
Now, here’s what I want to do as a church.
I want to do something
we haven’t really done before.
Since I’ve been here.
I want to do
just a little bit of open sharing
and that’s why I put this in your hands,
because again,
we don’t remember
everything we’ve covered.
But what I want to hear from you
is if over the course of this study
you feel like God has put on your heart
a spiritual discipline,
you want to develop–
I’d like to stay focused
on spiritual disciplines,
if we can. A spiritual discipline
you want to develop
one of these on this list
or could be another that I didn’t cover.
And then if there’s also a method
or a means that you want
to share toward that end.
But here’s the catch.
We’ve already heard one sermon, right?
And I’ve got people
coming around with microphones
and just basically read out
your answer
to these two questions at the bottom
what is one spiritual habit
I want to build in 2024?
I’m going to give you
just a minute or two
to answer these questions on your own.
What’s one spiritual habit
I want to build?
What is one thing I can do this week?
Something you can do this week
to begin building that spiritual habit?
All right.
Take a minute
and jot some down
and then we’re going to share.
I want to hear from some of you
what God has put on your heart.
Okay.
Who’s got one to share?
We got guys with mikes roaming around.
They’re going to hang onto the mikes.
They’re not going to give it over to you.
Okay
Keeping control,
control freak coming out
who’s got one to share?
Come on, somebody.
I know you talkers. Here we go.
Now I see some hands are shooting up.
Who can get up here?
Here comes Jim.
Thank you.
To save the day,
we had another one back there.
If another mike wants
to be headed over that direction.
Oh, sorry.
Also, there’s probably five people
raising their hands up there.
We got a mike upstairs.
Read the Bible more and worship more.
Read the Bible more and worship more.
Who else put that down out there?
I’m not going make you talk
just who else relates to that?
Yeah, there’s a few more.
Okay. Who who was next?
There was someone over this way.
We got Christy over here.
If you
see a hand raised in
the balcony, Nick, just move toward him.
Okay? Go ahead, Kathy.
Invite a Christ into every situation
that I face.
And I started doing that
about a month ago.
Say that again?
I didn’t hear it up here. I’m sorry.
Invite Christ into every situation.
And I started doing that
about a month ago.
Awesome.
Invite Christ in every situation.
That’s good.
Okay, go ahead, Christy.
I want to be
listening more to God.
And I’m just going to spend time
sitting in his presence.
Good. Presence.
Yeah. That’s an important one.
I’ve been focused on this year,
just sitting in his presence.
Go ahead, Nick.
I wish to serve more. Serve.
Finding places
to serve more in the coming year. Good.
And I’m not. You don’t have to.
But if you can say one specific action
towards that you plan to take this week,
that’d be great.
Josh, are you over here with anyone
back there?
Okay. we got one here.
Go ahead, Michelle.
I want to start reading my Bible more.
Good. And talking with God.
All right, Josh who do we have
back here?
I want to spend more time in prayer
with my kids.
And we have been doing
some Bible studies at home.
And I think we’ll continue that.
That’s good.
More time in prayer with my kids.
Who else would say that?
Yeah, that’s what I
need that in our home, too.
Yeah.
Let’s just take a few more.
Anybody else upstairs?
Here we go.
Go ahead.
I want more time in prayer.
And I have just been
did a few moments are like
5 to 10 minutes in quiet time before God.
Okay,
more time in prayer
and 10 minutes in quiet time before God.
That’s good. Okay, who do we have down here?
I started
prayer journaling,
and I’m not really a good writer,
but I started writing about things
that I didn’t even know
I needed to pray about.
That’s good, Prayer journaling.
That’s so powerful.
Who else here likes to journal
to write down your prayers and thoughts?
Yeah, man, I find that so helpful.
It just slows you down,
gets you focused on the Lord.
That’s good.
All right, well, listen, not.
Excuse me. I got one more.
No, no, no. We’re done Ray.
Not. I’m kidding. Go ahead.
I’ve got the face for radio
and a gift for gab.
I’m sorry. I’m
being more open as a Christian.
When you meet people,
you know, I find even in my job,
I can talk with someone
and I can tell by their actions
that they’re a Christian.
And walking with them
in conversation
and not being afraid to ask
and sometimes just saying
and opening that door
leads to so many conversations.
I mean, you can stand right there and
pray with somebody.
You can hear their hurts,
you can hear their pain,
and I hear so many Christian people say
that I’m so afraid
of opening that conversation.
And I know in today’s society
that’s wrong.
God wants you to express him
and show people that the world
is not the place to be.
It’s to be in
Jesus Christ, your Lord and savior.
Yeah. Thank you Ray. That’s good.
All right, well, listen,
it’s been a good service.
Let’s wrap up in prayer.
