April 14, 2024 |
Sunday Morning
John 21:15-25 | Restoration and Clarification
John C. Majors |
John 21:15-25
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Well, good morning everyone.
It’s great to be with you.
What a powerful song.
I just–
that song is so hard to sing at one level.
I mean, I will make room for you.
I hope I will.
I think that’s a prayer of faith.
But it’s a great way
to enter into a time of worship
and to a time of studying God’s Word.
And this is a week I know many of us have
been looking forward to for many months
that you finally found out
Kentucky has a new coach right?
Yeah, I tried to think of,
I worked so hard
to try to come up with some kind of Pope
saves Kentucky joke,
but I couldn’t quite work it out.
Maybe not appropriate at a Baptist church,
but I did
think
what would have been really interesting,
I think Kentucky and Louisville
both missed an opportunity.
Honestly,
Kentucky should have hired Pitino,
right?
Louisville should have hired Calipari.
And then we went,
had a lot of fun.
We’ve had a lot of talk
about in the coming years.
There’s still hope.
There’s still time
I think.
What we really have been looking
forward to
is our conclusion
of our study of the book of John.
Yeah, we’ve been in the book of John
18 months now, roughly
60 or so sermons
covering the book of John.
And this is the week where we,
of course, will still talk
about the book of John here and there.
But we conclude our series walking through
the Book of John over these many months.
And it’s interesting how the book ends.
It ends like a lot of stories end.
Most stories
don’t end at the pinnacle of action,
at the high point of what is occurring.
Think of any movie you’ve seen– the classic
Star Wars, the Death Star is destroyed,
the movie doesn’t end right
then.
There’s still things to resolve.
There’s still questions to answer.
You still wonder what’s going to happen
with Han Solo and Luke and Leia.
Is there some romance brewing?
What’s going to happen with the Republic?
We still got some loose ends to tie up,
even though the main action took place.
And we see in the book of John,
this kind of happens as well.
Of course, Jesus dies
and we think the story’s over.
But then he rises again and the disciples
get hope and joy and life.
But there are some unanswered questions.
In fact, if you put yourself
in the shoes of the disciples
wondering what’s going to happen now
in particular, you’re probably wondering
what’s going to happen with Peter.
I mean, here’s the guy who said, I’m
all in no matter
what, I’ll be with you to the end,
no matter what.
And he outright denies Jesus.
That’s still got to be dealt with.
We can’t just leave that out there.
What is Jesus going to do?
Is he going to reject Peter?
Is he going to cast him aside,
or is he going to restore him?
That’s what our passage today,
tying up the loose ends of
some of what has happened in this story.
That’s what our passage
today is going to talk about.
We’re going to see him address Peter,
but he’s also going to address John,
because Peter and John
are kind of his two main dudes.
And so how it affects
Peter is also going to affect John.
Is John going to be our leader
going forward?
If Peter’s not the main guy going forward?
We’re going to see all this addressed
and kind of wrapped up here
at the end of the book of John.
So we’re in John chapter 21,
the last chapter of the book of John.
If you have a church Bible
that’s on page 853,
those Bibles are available out
in the connection corner.
Grab one any time you can keep that.
We’d love for you to be able
to read along.
Follow along with us
as we work through the passage today,
and we’ll be reading
starting at verse 15 in John chapter 21.
So if you turn there
and follow along, as I read
John chapter 21, verse 15,
when they had finished breakfast,
Jesus said to Simon Peter,
Simon, son of John,
do you love me more than these?
He said to him,
yes, Lord, you know that I love you.
He, Jesus, said to him, feed my lambs.
Then he said to him a second time, Simon,
son of John, do you love me?
He said to him, yes, Lord,
you know that I love you.
He said to him, tend my sheep.
He said to him, the third time, Simon,
son of John, do you love me?
Peter was grieved because he said to him
the third time, do you love me?
And he said to him, Lord,
you know everything.
You know that I love you.
Jesus said to him, feed my sheep.
The disciples
last week were waiting on
Jesus to show up.
They went fishing. Jesus appears.
They come to the shore
and I skipped over an important detail
last week that was mentioned there.
I skipped over it on purpose
to highlight it this week.
If you look back at verse nine,
when they come to the shore.
They got out on land.
They saw a charcoal fire in place
with fish laid out on it,
and bread.
That word for charcoal fire is different
than the normal word for fire,
and it only shows up one other time
in all of the New Testament.
And the other place is in chapter 18,
when Peter, in the midst of denying
Jesus, is standing,
warming himself over a charcoal fire.
And so
he brings the disciples to the shore.
They show up and the setting
early morning charcoal fire.
It just hints at this issue
that we have to address.
Peter, you remember the last time
you were standing over a charcoal fire?
Peter, remember what happened then?
This is just the subtle message
that’s being communicated.
It’s really interesting
how the setting at times
can communicate things
without you having to say anything.
I remember when I proposed to Julie,
we went to Nashville.
That’s where we had first met,
and I kind of relived the whole day of
when we had first met.
We went to the same places, ate
at the same places, and we ended up
at the waterfront where we first spent time
really talking in-depth and connecting.
And then that’s where I proposed.
And then on the drive home, I asked her, hey,
did you see this coming at all today?
She said from a mile away.
How could I not see you
if you didn’t propose?
We were going to have big problems today.
The setting, I mean, so much of everything
we went through,
it screamed something significant.
It’s going to happen here today.
Jesus is creating the environment
for him to begin to address the issue.
The elephant in the room,
the thing that has been hanging
over their heads
for these few days since his resurrection.
Now notice it also said here though,
when they had finished
breakfast.
One thing I love about
Jesus is he never seems to be in a hurry.
He. Come on up guys.
Let’s eat. Let’s just hang out.
Let’s just connect.
Yeah. This issue’s
there. Peter’s feeling it.
Peter knows it
probably all the disciples know it.
When they had finished breakfast.
Not only did he wait till after
breakfast,
it’s been at least a week, maybe longer.
You know, Jesus just doesn’t seem
to be in the kind of hurry
we think he should be.
You know, there’s there’s a lot of times
where you face some challenge or issue.
I don’t know about you,
but my tendency is to charge right in
and try to solve it,
try to deal with it, press into it.
And a lot of times
that causes more problems.
There’s a lot of things
we think that are emergencies.
And of course there are real emergencies.
But there’s a lot of times
we make an emergency out of something that
could wait.
Maybe if I waited for a better timing
or the better, a better setting.
It’s crazy how much the setting
can affect the outcome of an interaction.
So they wait till after breakfast.
They finish breakfast.
Now look at how Jesus brings up the issue.
Here’s all these simply says,
Jesus said to Simon Peter back in verse
15, Simon, son of John, do you love me
more than these?
One of the commentators
I read, Josh Moody, pointed out
three things about this
that I think are real helpful
to see what Jesus is doing here.
The first
and I’m going to put these on screen.
The first is that he just simply engages
by starting with a question.
I don’t know about you,
but I would have done a different
I would
have started out, I told you, Peter,
I told you, I told you you would deny me.
You said you wouldn’t.
You said you’d be there to the end.
I knew better, I was right. Do you see?
Let me hear it.
Jesus just simply asked him a question.
And it’s not
one of those condemning questions,
but is a question
that just invites conversation
that lets him know I want to address this,
but I’m not here to beat you up.
Now notice the second thing that happens
here.
The second thing he brings up the way
he engages this with Peter.
First he asks a question.
Next,
look at what he calls him in the passage.
He calls him Simon, son of John.
The only other time
he’s called him,
that was when he very first met him.
Your name is Simon, son of John.
But I’m calling you Cephas, Peter,
which in English is the rock.
He’s going back.
Let’s go back to the beginning.
Do you remember when we first met?
Do you remember what you were called then?
Simon, son of John.
This is just a subtle.
Let’s take it back to the beginning.
Let’s start this thing over.
But then the third thing he does,
and this is critical, and this is
something I think we all can embrace.
Whenever you’re pressing into an issue
with someone, notice, by the way,
he asks this questions, what he is doing
is he’s trying to get to
the heart of the issue.
He’s trying to press
into the heart of the issue.
Notice he asks him this
do you love me more than these?
I’m going to talk about what that means.
But the first point to make here is how
important it is when you are addressing
an issue between you and someone else,
or if you’re a parent with your child,
is to try to get
to the heart of the matter.
I don’t know about you, but oftentimes
the temptation is just to deal
with the issue that’s on the surface.
I just want the behavior to change.
That’s all.
But if you don’t press
into the heart issue,
Tim Keller calls it the sin
beneath the sin the motivation.
And you can’t always do that.
Look, it takes art,
it takes care,
it takes time, it takes wisdom.
There’s sometimes you just got to deal
with the behavior and move on.
I get that, but over time we want to be
pressing towards what’s the heart issue,
what’s going on in my heart?
What’s causing the behavior
if we if we don’t go there, the behavior
is not going to change long term.
It will be grudgingly in the moment.
And so Jesus asks him the question
that’s at the heart of the issue
Jesus, Peter, do you, Simon, son of John,
do you love me more than these?
Now the hard part for us is to understand
what that word
these means, because it could point
to a few different things.
There’s a few different views on this.
I’m going to walk through three of them.
Who are the these in this situation?
These could be the fish.
Fishing, your vocation.
Do you love me
more than you love these things?
Your job, your work, your calling?
I mean, you went right back to it
while you’re supposed to be waiting on me.
Do you love me more than that?
I don’t think that’s what it is.
Because Peter
was the first to jump out of the boat
and forget about the fish leaving behind.
Come right the shore to see Jesus.
So it’s probably not that.
The other
thing in the immediate context
is the disciples who are right there.
Peter, do you love me more than you love
the disciples?
Your bro’s, your guys,
your dudes who you’ve slaved with
in the water, the guys who’ve been there
with you all along?
Do you love me more than you love them?
The problem with that is Peter’s
not really known as a very loving guy.
He’s the one that’s going,
hey, I’m the better one here.
Look at it.
I’m the best.
I deserve the most honor.
Not necessarily
the one known for how loving and caring is
for the other disciples.
I think probably where this could land.
Do you love me more than these disciples,
meaning
do you really love me
more than the disciples do?
One of the
passages that draws this out, in fact,
I’ve mentioned this before,
but a great way to approach Bible study
is to read other Bible translations.
I have a number of different ones
I read from, kind of a base translation.
Obviously we teach from the ESV
and you probably have
your favorite translation, but it’s good
to read from the others as well.
This gets drawn out real
well in the NET Bible.
Have you heard of the NET Bible?
It’s called the New English Translation.
It’s called the Net Bible.
Also, they kind of did that on purpose
because when it first came out,
it was only online.
It was really the first Bible translation
to show up, just only online.
They before they ever printed a copy,
they just put it online
and it’s all free online.
There’s tons of great Bible study
notes on that,
but they had one little word here to draw
out, and they’re probably
crossing the line from translation
to interpretation by doing this.
But they’re trying to draw out
what is meant by this word these here.
And we’re going to put the passage
on the screen.
Just look at what it says.
One little word added at the end.
When they had finished breakfast,
Jesus said to Simon Peter, Simon,
son of John,
do you love me more than these do?
Do you love me
more than the rest of the disciples do?
Do you really love me
more than you say that you do?
You have said all along, I’ll be with you
no matter what.
All the all the rest will fall away.
But I’ll be there.
I will die with you no matter what.
And you were the
only one to outright deny me.
Do you really love me more than these do?
Now look at how Peter responds to this.
Look at what he says.
Do you really love me more than these?
Look at how he responds.
He said to him, yes, Lord,
you know that I love you.
What I love about
that is what he doesn’t say.
Yes, Lord,
you know that I love you more than these.
No. Yes, Lord.
You know that I love you.
You know.
You know how I love you.
There’s just a hint of humility there.
Before it was. I’m the first. I’m
the best.
I’ll be the last to fall.
I’ll be with you to the end.
Maybe I can’t say more than these now.
One of the things
we need to address in this passage.
And if you’ve studied this passage before
or have heard someone else preach on it,
this has been brought out.
So I’m going to walk us
through a little bit
what is happening here in the language
that we can’t see
in English,
we only have one word for love.
There’s only one.
We have a lot of words that are similar,
but there’s only one word that means love.
And here’s how I know that.
Try to use an any other word than love.
If your special friend asks you
if you love them.
John, do you love me?
I am deeply committed to you.
Okay, that’s great,
but I asked do you love me?
I am crazy about you.
I might even say infatuated.
Okay, now this is getting weird,
but I asked do you love me?
I really care about you.
Well, now you know.
We’re just talking about friendship.
That’s all right. It’s not.
It’s not me, it’s not you.
It’s me. Actually means it’s you.
You see,
we really only have one word for love.
But the Greeks, which is the language
the New Testament was written
in originally had multiple words
for love.
Part of the interesting part of this verse
is that actually, two different words
for love are used here.
And I’ve highlighted these
in different colors.
So you can see
and I don’t normally do this,
put the Greek words up on the screen,
but I think it helps for you
to see what’s happening because they are
some of them are familiar.
So looking back at verse
15, here’s what’s going on.
When they had finished breakfast,
Jesus said to Simon,
son of John, do you love me?
The Greek word there is agape.
Do you love (agape) me more than these?
But Peter responds.
He says, yes, Lord,
you know that I love (phileo)
I love you (phileo).
Now, part of what is often asserted here
is, and we do know this, agape,
phileo have a different range of meaning.
You’ve heard these words.
You’ve probably seen a church, Agape Church.
Campus Crusade for Christ,
who I used to serve with,
named their ministry in Europe Agape
because they thought maybe we should drop
the word crusade here in Europe.
That might not be the best
word, might not open the most doors here.
Let’s call our ministry love instead.
Agape Europe.
Agape is often seen
as more of a high, higher love,
a more noble love, a more God like love
and more unconditional love.
And the range of meaning often includes
that idea. Phileo,
which you’ve heard as well.
You’ve heard that word Philadelphia.
You’ve heard of that city.
What’s the nickname of that city?
City of brotherly love.
Phileo love is often considered more
of an affection, more of a friendship
love.
You know, you love a good friend
differently than you love your
your spouse.
There’s a different type of love there.
So some have seen this interaction
between Jesus and Peter,
and they’ve said,
so is Jesus saying something like,
do you love me with an unconditional God
like higher love?
And Peter, is he then responding with,
well, no,
I just kind of love you like a friend
Jesus actually.
Is that what’s going on
with that difference?
It’s hard to know.
It’s really hard to know exactly.
Putting yourself back in that setting
at that time, understanding the fine
nuances between the meaning of words
is really difficult to do.
However, I do
wonder why he didn’t just answer
with the exact same word.
Well, why didn’t he just say agape?
In fact, you’ve got to wonder
if Jesus didn’t wonder that as well,
because he does the same thing
with verse two, with verse 16.
In their next interaction,
flip ahead to verse 16
and throw that on the screen,
because you’ll see this again.
He said to him a second time, Simon,
son of John, do you love (agape)
me? Giving him another chance,
he said to him, yes, Lord,
you know that I love (phileo) you.
And it’s interesting in your Bible
it probably just says love for both words,
even though they’re different words.
We don’t really have another word
to draw that out.
I appreciate how if you have an old
copy of the NIV, they try to do this.
I’m going to put that on the screen
for you to see.
But just adding the word truly.
When they had finished eating,
Jesus said to Simon
Peter, Simon, son of John,
do you truly love me more than these?
Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.
That’s just an effort to try to say
these words are slightly different.
Do you truly love me
or do you love me?
Twice we get this interaction.
Do you agape me?
Yes, Lord, I phileo you.
And then I think what really gives people
pause about this is the third interaction.
If you look at the third
time, put up that third interaction.
He said to him the third
time, Simon, son of John, do you love
(phileo) me? This time Jesus
asks him the word that Peter
has been using all along.
Do you love (phileo) me now?
Peter was grieved because he asked him
the third time, do you love me?
And he said to him, Lord,
you know everything.
You know that I love you.
You know that I love you.
I don’t know if we can know exactly that
Jesus is meeting him on his ground
by using the different words and…
but there’s something going on there.
Why couldn’t Peter just say the same word
Jesus was using?
I think there are other hints in here
that a little bit of this is happening,
this Jesus coming to Peter to call him
up, and Peter saying,
I don’t know if I can fully go there.
One of the ways
we see that if you look back here
at verse 17.
He said to him the third time, Simon,
son of John, do you love me?
Peter was grieved because he had said
to him the third time, do you love me?
One thing that everyone agrees on
when they study this passage,
even if they differ on
whether you should take the differences
and those Greek words
as significant or not, everyone agrees.
Peter denies Jesus
three times at a charcoal fire
early in the morning.
And here is Jesus calling him three times.
Peter, do you love me?
Peter do you love me?
Peter, do you love me?
He is clearly calling him
to deal with this issue.
And when Peter responds,
I think we get this hint
of what’s going on in Peter’s heart,
because Peter at this time he responds.
He says, Lord, you know everything.
You know that I love you.
I think what
Peter is pointing at here by just saying,
you know everything.
You know that I love you.
You know my heart.
I don’t know that I trust my own heart.
I’m feeling a little humbled.
I exalted myself before.
And now we’re in a place
where I don’t even know if I can say
the word love fully and mean it anymore.
I don’t know if I can trust my own heart.
I know I’ve been there.
Have you been there at those times?
I remember in college, man,
I was so ate up with control, with trying
to figure out what it meant
to be a Christian
by knowledge and appearance.
And then you come to know what
the real love of Christ is,
through his unconditional love for you.
It’s not about my performance.
It’s not about how I appear.
It’s not about what I do or say
or don’t say.
And I remember feeling in that moment,
okay, Lord,
I know I love you, but I’m not sure
I even trust my own heart
fully to know what that means.
I need you like the guy in Mark
chapter nine, I believe.
Help my unbelief. Lord, you know my heart.
You know better than me.
I thought I knew
my love for you and I didn’t.
You see some of what’s
going on here?
I’ve heard that from some of you
at times. I’ve had conversations
where someone will go, you know,
I really want to go all in on Jesus.
But I’m afraid if I do, he’ll,
he’ll force me and my family
to move to Africa and be missionaries.
Why is it always Africa, by the way?
There’s plenty of other places.
I know you don’t want to go here
in the US
probably, so,
but that happens all the time.
There’s this sense that I don’t know
that I can do what he might call me to do.
I don’t know that
I currently have it within me.
I don’t know that
I trust my own love for him.
Part of that’s healthy.
I’m not talking about some kind of OCD.
Overanalyzing your love
for Jesus, to the point
where you think you could never do right
and you’re beating yourself up as a result.
I’m not talking about that.
I’m just talking about just a measure
of humility going, yes, Lord, I love you,
but you know what that means, right
Lord? You really know my heart.
I sure hope you do.
We just see a glimpse of that here
with Peter.
Peter coming, I think,
with a measure of humility.
Now look at how Jesus responds to him
each time.
What does he say each time
after Peter says I love you?
He uses three different words
two, two different words,
but he uses them three different times.
Looking back at each verse, verse 15,
he ends with feed my lambs.
Verse 16:10 my sheep. Verse 17,
feed my sheep.
Here’s a word
that I think sums up
everything that’s going on here, the word
that we’ve been wondering.
How will Jesus approach Peter?
The word that says how he will view
Peter, Peter moving forward,
the word
that flows from this call to serve.
Peter, you’ve been focused on yourself.
You’ve been thinking about yourself.
Go serve others.
What he’s doing in this moment
is restoration.
Jesus restores Peter in this moment.
Restoration.
Peter, come serve. Peter, come alongside.
And here’s what I want
everyone to hear today.
I don’t know what you’ve been through.
I don’t know what you’ve done,
but I’m guessing there’s
a few of us here today that feel like
Jesus could never accept me.
He could never love
me because of what I’ve done.
The shame.
There’s guilt.
There’s feelings of inadequacy.
There’s feelings of unworthiness.
And he says to Peter,
feed my sheep.
Come back in. Tend my lambs.
Feed my lambs.
He calls him back in.
I don’t know what you’ve done,
but I promise you, Jesus loves you.
He will accept you.
And there may be real consequences
for your decisions in life.
I’m guessing that Peter had a little bit
of a stigma hanging over him
wherever he went for decades.
Is that the guy that denied Jesus?
None of the other disciples
did. They at least hid.
But he outright said, nope,
don’t know him.
Is that the guy? He’s supposed
to teach us about Jesus?
We’re supposed to trust him?
Imagine the rest of his life.
No, no, no. Remember Jesus forgave him.
Yeah. We’ll see.
There may be real consequences
to decisions
you make. If you end up in prison
the rest of your life.
That’s a consequence to decisions
you made.
But that Jesus still loves you.
He still can restore
you. May look different.
In fact, he may use you in greater ways
as a result. He may use you in ways,
He will use you in ways
you never could have imagined.
But you’re not useless, unworthy.
Those are the lies
the enemy wants you to hear.
You’re useless.
You’re unworthy.
No one could ever love you. No.
Jesus loves you.
I heard a theologian once be asked
what is…
And this guy has forgotten
more theology than I’ll ever know.
What is the most profound theological
truth that you have ever heard?
Everybody’s wondering,
what’s he going to say?
Let me get my pen out. Let me get ready.
Jesus loves me,
this I know, for the Bible tells me
so is what he said.
It’s so beautiful.
It’s so true. He loves you.
And no matter what you’ve been through,
he wants to restore you.
He really does.
This is what he does with Peter.
Now look at the last thing he says to him
that points
back to the beginning
of their relationship.
Verse 18, truly, truly,
I say to you, when you were young,
you used to dress yourself, walk
wherever you wanted, but when you are old
you will stretch out your hands
and another will dress you and carry
you where you do not want to go.
Everybody understand? You.
I’m so grateful that John clarified
what this means to us, because this verse
would make no sense. Now
at the time,
it was understood that stretching out
your hands was a euphemism
for crucifixion.
Much like we don’t like to use the word
death or die.
We’ll say stuff like he passed
on, went to a better place,
Is no longer with us.
Those kind of things.
Who wants to talk about crucifixion?
You will stretch out your hands.
But John here gives us the clarification
in what he writes. This he said to show by
what kind of death
he, Peter, was to glorify God.
And after saying this, Jesus
said to him, follow me.
Those are some of the same words he used
to call the disciples to begin with.
We’re starting over.
Remember what this is about.
Follow me.
Come with me.
We’re still in this together.
You’re still a part of what we’re doing.
Jesus restores Peter.
There’s a restoration.
Now, we’ve talked about Peter,
and now we need to talk about John.
Because if you’re the disciples, you’ve
wondered, okay, you’ve restored Peter.
We weren’t sure what was going to happen
with Peter.
So we wondered,
is John going to be our next leader?
And here’s what he does here.
He clarifies John’s role.
He restores Peter.
But now what does this mean for John?
Let’s
get some clarification around John’s role.
Look at verse 20.
Peter turned and saw the disciple
whom Jesus loved following them,
the one who also had leaned back
against him during the supper and
had said, Lord, who is it
that is going to betray you?
And we know we covered this
when we studied that section.
This is John
referring to himself in third person.
When Peter saw him, he said to
Jesus, Lord, what about this guy,
our man?
Jesus said to him, if it is my will
that he remain until I come,
what is that to you?
You follow me.
It’s a big temptation
to be worried
about what God might do with someone else.
And Peter, in this moment.
So you’re saying I’m
going to be crucified?
Yes, Peter, remember you said you would go
all the way to the end with me.
Don’t forget, that’s what you asked
for. It’s going to come.
What about this guy?
What about this other guy?
What’s going to happen to him?
Now because of the
way… the way Jesus responds here.
There’s a little bit of confusion
in the early church,
and John just takes a second
to clear it up.
So the saying
spread abroad among the brothers
that this disciple was not to die.
Yet Jesus did not say to him
that he was not to die.
But if it is my will
that he remains until I come,
what is that to you?
In this moment
he just simply says, I’ve got a different
mission in mind for John than you.
And that’s okay.
He clarifies John’s role moving forward.
Let me wrap up the book
with these last couple of verses,
and then we have a couple of application
points for us about
what does this mean for us today?
Because John says this of himself,
this is the disciple
who is bearing witness about these things
and who has written these things.
And we know that his testimony is true.
Now there are also many other things
that Jesus did.
Where were every one of them
to be written
I suppose that the world itself
could not contain the books
that would be written.
John wraps up the book of John,
clarifying his own role,
resolving the issue of Peter’s
lingering sin.
Will he be restored or not?
And two extremely influential guys
in the history of the church are now
set up for the church to move forward,
and much more could be written about that.
There’s
so much more that could be written.
What does all this mean for us today?
I think as we look at this passage
and we think about
Peter’s lingering pain and sin,
wondering what would happen with them,
what do we do in the midst of failure?
How do we live in the
midst of your own failure?
What does this section mean for us?
Well, let’s look at I’ve got four things
we’re going to cover.
As we look at –what does how do we move
forward in the midst of failure?
First, number one, move toward Jesus.
Move toward him
in the midst of your failure.
I don’t know about you,
but when he shows up on the shore and John
says, that’s the Lord, my temptation
would be to sink down in the boat.
I don’t want to have this conversation.
He’s going to want to bring up my failure.
He’s going to want to bring up how I
denied him.
And what does Peter do?
He does the opposite.
He’s the first to dive into the water
and move towards Jesus.
And this tells you a little bit about how
Jesus, how different he is than us.
I think many times
I want people to feel shame and guilt
for what they’ve done wrong.
But Peter has this sense
I’ve got to move toward Jesus.
I got to move toward him.
I know he’ll accept me.
Even in the midst of this. Move towards
Jesus in the midst of your failure.
Number two, focus on serving others.
In the midst of restoration,
focus on serving others.
You know, that’s what he says to Peter.
Feed my sheep, tend
my sheep, feed my lambs, care for them.
Those are two powerful words
feed and tend.
There is something
about getting your eyes off yourself
and in the midst of your misery
and suffering.
There’s so much power in that.
I hope that we can give everyone here
an opportunity
to serve in some way where you feel like
this is what God has made me to do.
Have you experienced that in life?
You know what I’m talking about there.
Those moments when you’re like,
I can’t wait to do more of this.
I feel like God is using me
because of what we’re doing.
I’m seeing him work.
I love it
when sometimes on Mondays in the morning,
I’ll take a break from studying,
and I might go down
and talk to the folks who are cooking for
Helping Hands, our homeless ministry,
and they’re preparing to go out that night
and serve
to take food out to the homeless.
They go downtown to go
to a couple of different homeless camps.
But there’s a problem with this.
I know that if I’m going to go down there,
I better have lots of time
because they’re excited.
They’re happy. They have a lot to say.
They got some questions to ask.
They want me to taste things
and see things.
And here’s this new piece of equipment
we got
because we’re so pumped up about what
we’re doing.
I love that. It’s great.
And look, feeding
the homeless may not be your thing.
You may not have found your thing,
you may have tried different things.
But I firmly believe God has some area
of service like that for you.
Where you feel like
this is what I was made for,
and we’re going to talk
a lot more about that this fall
in terms of the service opportunities
in the church and how to figure out
how you’re wired
and where God might have a seat for you.
But there’s so much power in getting our eyes
off of ourselves and serving.
Number
three, in the midst of your failure,
avoid comparison.
This is what Peter, right? went to.
What about him?
Yeah, well,
no, no, no, don’t worry about him.
Follow me.
If I have a different plan for him,
don’t worry about it.
Follow me.
And here you have Peter.
His mission is to go out, travel, plant
churches,
die on the cross.
John.
He maybe stays more local,
does more writing, lives a lot longer.
I like John’s ministry path.
I think I’ll follow that one personally
if the Lord allows,
but avoid comparison.
I’m sure we’ve all faced this at times.
You see someone who’s doing
better than maybe you are in the moment,
and the temptation
is to look down on them,
to be upset with them, to not like them.
My hope is
that we do the opposite, that we celebrate
what God is doing in their lives,
that we say, thank you, Lord,
for what you’re doing in their lives.
I don’t know why
that’s not happening in my life,
but you have a different path
for me, Lord, what do you want me to do?
And a move away from comparison.
And then lastly, number four,
seek to restore, not punish,
seek to restore, not punish.
And I get it.
There are times
where punishment is needed, no doubt.
But the heart of what we do should be
restoration should be behind that.
You’ve probably heard it said that the
the church are some of the best out there
at beating up their own.
There’s other ways,
I’ve heard it said some not as
polite.
And it’s often true.
How do we move towards restoration
with one another
to build one another up?
One of the ways that we can point
our hearts towards restoration
is by taking communion together.
And we’re going to do that today.
And if you’re a deacon
helping to distribute communion,
if you would slip out now
and prepare the elements.
And they’re going to distribute those.
And communion here
is open to anyone who knows Jesus.
If you call Jesus Lord and Savior,
even if you’re not a member
of this church, we’d love for you
to participate in communion.
When the tray comes pass,
just take one stack of cups.
There’s one cup with the juice, one
with the bread.
Take that and hold on to that.
And once everyone receives the elements,
then I’ll lead us through
taking those together.
But here’s what I want you to pray
for while those are being distributed.
I find this moment while I’m waiting
to take communion, to be a powerful moment
to press into my own heart.
Is there someone in your life
that needs restoration?
It could even be you
by the way.
Pray for them during this time.
If there’s a reason you need to go
towards someone, pray for them.
Pray for wisdom.
And if it’s you that needs restoration,
pray for your own heart as well.
So if you would go ahead and start
distributing those,
hang on to those and pray.
Pray for restoration during this time,
and then I’ll lead us through
taking them together in a moment.
