October 29, 2023 |
Sunday Morning
John 15:12-17 | The Sacrificial Mission
John C. Majors |
John 15:12-17
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well, I wasn’t sure if
she was going to leave me time
to preach or not there for a minute.
That had been okay.
It would have been fine.
Yeah.
Transitions can be hard.
It’s part of life.
We will have something that’s
more of an official reception
As the date approaches
to where the final transition is made.
She’s –Eddie
Lee is going to help invest
in the next person that comes in
and continue
to be a part of
serving our senior adults especially.
So that’s it’s really powerful.
But you need to know something else
about Eddie Lee.
She presents herself
as all sweet
and kind all the time,
but she she’s got a sneaky side, too.
Okay.
This week she called me. She.
She emailed me, didn’t even call me.
I need to have a meeting with you.
I got to have a meeting this week.
Okay.
She must really be struggling
with this decision.
She must need prayer
and counseling and comforting.
So I set up the meeting, I
rearranged stuff
to make time just for her,
and then I had to switch it
and she adjusts.
And so we get this meeting together
and I walk out of my study and there she is
and there’s all the rest of the staff
congregated.
And I’m thinking, this is weird.
What’s going on?
Is there a coup happening or what?
But then she comes out,
she and Susan had arranged
she comes out with a big box of books
because it was my 50th birthday
that they were celebrating.
So she tricked me into that.
Yeah.
She started by saying,
you know, I was here when I started.
She said, the pastor at the time, Brother
Howe, in her first year turned 50,
and she thought,
I could never imagine
anyone being that old at the time. Right.
She sees it a little differently now.
That’s how it goes.
But, you know, I was grateful.
I felt very loved on, very encouraged.
Each staff member
brought a book
from their own shelf at home
that that reminded me of them.
And so there was some interesting books
in the midst of that,
some interesting conversations.
I really appreciate it.
Well, all except one book, actually.
There was one book
that I really didn’t appreciate.
In fact,
we’re going to throw it up on the screen.
Andrew gave it to me.
Ham radio license manual.
I can’t read that from here.
All you need to become
an amateur radio operator.
And I thought, What does he think?
I’ve forgotten
how to use a cell phone or something.
Now I got to learned
when you’re old to use the radio,
I guess that happens.
Whatever. Thank you, Andrew. Maybe.
The same day my youngest son
said to me, Dad,
do you think now that you’re 50,
you’ll have the energy to preach
on Sunday?
Will you be able to get up on stage?
We’ll see,
I said. He was kidding.
I think I think.
Anyway,
we are continuing in our study
of the book of John
working through the book of John,
and we’re going to be in
John chapter 15 today.
We’re in the middle of the book of John.
We’re just covering
a short section of verses
verses 12 through 17,
and you’re going to see
a lot of familiar themes in this.
It’s a small section
because we’re hitting
some of the same themes
over and over again.
And I confessed to the Elders
this morning,
I really struggle with this message
how to best present it,
because how do you present the same thing
in a new, fresh way
that we’ve been hearing
week after week after week?
How can I make that more
interesting, more novel?
But then it hit me.
There’s a reason
Jesus keeps repeating the same thing
over and over again,
and I don’t need to kind of dress it up
and make it more interesting.
We need to keep hearing it
over and over again.
We need to keep repeating
some of the truths
we’ll hear in this passage.
So we’re going to work our way
through some of these sections.
And I think the emphasis of this passage
obviously, is on the word love.
You’re going to see that
right out of the gate.
But I think he’s trying
to show us three things
about love in this passage.
I think he’s trying to
show us the mission,
the command, the call on us is to love.
But then he
emphasizes that we’re not left
with just a command,
but we have a model for how to love.
He gives us that model, that example.
It’s not just an empty command.
He shows us how to love.
And then the third thing he
emphasizes in this passage
is not just the model,
but he gives us specific methods
or his specific ways of loving us.
In fact,
we’re going to see six ways
that he
models love specifically in this passage.
So let’s dive in
and look at John chapter 15.
If you have a church Bible,
that page number is up on the screen.
Page 800 something.
848 If you don’t have a Bible,
those are in the connection corner.
Grab one any time.
We’d love to put one in your hands.
I try to get us to read
from our own Bibles,
not just put the passage up on the screen
where we passively have it read to us.
But we need to be reading
from God’s Word
to get familiar with His word,
to be turning the pages of our Bible,
having it absorbed in our lives.
So, John, Chapter 15.
Let’s start by reading verse 12.
We’re actually going to read
through the whole section for
today, 12 through 17,
and set the context for our
look at Jesus’s love for us. Verse 12:
This is my commandment that you love one
another as I have loved you.
Greater love has no one than this
that someone lay down his life
for his friends.
You are my friends.
If you do what I command you,
no longer do I call you servants.
But the servant does not know
what his master is doing.
But I have called you friends.
For all that I have heard from my father,
I have made known to you.
You did not choose me.
But I chose you and appointed you.
That you should go bear fruit
and that your fruit should abide
so that whatever you ask in the father
and the father in my name,
he may give it to you.
These things I command to you
so that you will love one another.
So the first thing he
emphasizes about love in this passage
is just the mission, the command, love,
love one another.
The passage starts with the command,
and it ends with the almost exact
same verse.
Look at 12. This is my commandment-
You love one another, verse 17.
These things I commanded
so that you will love one another.
That’s bookending this passage.
That’s the emphasis of this section.
And it’s been all throughout
this whole upper room
sermon, upper room discourse.
In fact,
if you think back to John chapter 13,
that kind of kicked off
this whole section,
I give you a new command,
love one another,
and we talked about why that was new.
It was a new standard.
It was a new community,
a new covenant,
a new expression of love, lived out
among people who
aren’t necessarily related.
Meaning we’re not all
from Jewish lineage now.
We have a new covenant
in him,
a new relationship in him,
a new community together in him.
But then that follows up with
love one another.
It’s a new command.
And this is how people will know
that you’re my disciple
by your love for one another.
And so the call is for us to be loving
one another.
This is how people will know
that there’s
something different about us.
This is how they will know that we’re set
apart from the rest of the world
that that
something about us operates differently.
When our family first
went to serve in missions
in the South Pacific,
I had a friend say to us, you know,
you really should pick a passage,
a scripture
for your family
to dwell on in that season.
And so we did. He recommended one.
And I’m going to take you there
because I want to show you
one verse in there briefly.
It’s in Colossians chapter three.
We meditated on these verses for month
after month after month.
This short section of verses
turn to Colossians chapter three.
That’ll be on page 925
in your Bible.
Colossians is one of the epistles of Paul
Galatians
Ephesians, Philippians,
Colossians are all there together.
They share a lot of similar content.
But this section here, it was amazing
how relevant
it was to our lives day in and day out
in terms of loving one another.
Well, Colossians Chapter three
started verse 12–
put on then as God’s chosen one-
chosen ones- holy and beloved,
compassionate hearts,
kindness, humility,
meekness, patience,
bearing with one another and
if anyone has a complaint
against another, forgiving each other,
as the Lord has forgiven you.
It’s fascinating
how many times
as we meditated on these verses
that that very day
there was something in here
that each of us needed to hear.
If anyone has a complaint
against one another, forgive one another,
show kindness to one another,
move toward one another.
But the
verse that I want us to see, the day
that follows right on heels of
this is verse 14.
And above all these put on love,
which binds everything together
in perfect harmony, Put on love,
in fact,
put on love because it binds us together.
That in fact, I think you could say
love is the means of unity,
because there’s a lot of things
a church can unite around.
It could be doctrine.
I mean, it should be doctrine.
There should be unity around our beliefs,
could be a cause.
Maybe there’s some special cause
that a church really rallies around.
They consider this is the burden
that God has put on us.
The thing he wants us to be all about.
It could be style of worship.
Yeah.
This is what sets us apart from others.
This is how we worship.
It could be a style of chili
you prefer maybe– noodles, not noodles.
I don’t know.
We could unite. Divide around that.
There’s a lot of
things you can unite around.
But if there’s not love
in the midst of that,
it doesn’t matter.
You’ve seen those churches where they are
steadfastly united around doctrine.
they know their doctrine,
but there’s no love.
There’s bitterness, there’s anger,
there’s no friendliness.
So we can be
perfectly united around doctrine.
Let me tell you,
we could have
really outdated styles of worship
and so, so preaching, maybe we do
point being we can have all that.
But if we have people who are
kindhearted,
sincerely loving Christ, servant hearted,
full of loving one another
in that church
that can’t keep from growing,
you see how love binds us together,
how love creates unity,
how critical it is to us serving him.
I reached out to Bob Russell recently.
He was the pastor at Southeast Christian.
You know,
when he came there, they were 100 people.
And when he left,
I don’t know, 22,000 plus
people after 40 years and one place.
And I reached out to him to say,
thank you.
I am the new pastor of Valley View.
Bob Russell
actually helped install elders here.
He worked with us to develop
an elder board.
He preached the sermon
to launch the elders
to commission the elders.
And so I just said,
Thank you for your investment here.
I really appreciate it as the new pastor.
And so he said, Hey, let’s grab lunch.
I want to hear about what
God’s doing at Valley View.
Okay, Bob, No problem.
So we get together
and then he starts to ask me
what’s happening at Valley View,
What’s God doing at Valley View?
You tell me about how things are
going there. I want to hear.
Tell me about your staff.
How are your staff? Man,
Bob, I got great staff,
great group of people
who really love the Lord.
Okay. Tell me about the elders.
How are they?
You know, we put them in place
how are they doing?
Amazing elders.
These are men who deeply love the Lord,
that they’re serving the body.
They’re willing to do
whatever it takes to serve people.
Well, tell me about that.
Sounds great.
Tell me about your finances.
Is this is the church in debt?
No, Bob, we don’t have any debt.
Well, well, tell me about your people.
What’s the tone of your people like?
Are they encouraging
or are they difficult?
I’m like, Bob, the people here,
they’re amazing
person after person is just excited
and encouraged.
There’s an excitement in the room
every Sunday.
I can’t wait to get there
and just talk
with people and hear what
they’re excited about.
And Bob said, John, I really believe God
has you in a place to see him
do some amazing things in your community.
Bob left the conversation
encouraged
and excited about Valley View.
The dude who built
the biggest church around
is excited about what God is doing here,
and I think
what we can look to
and see
in the midst of that
is that there is a spirit of loving one
another that permeates
all throughout the church.
And I’m grateful for you
and I’m grateful to be a part of that.
And it’s exciting to see another guy
that I look up to get excited about that.
So love one another.
That’s the first call.
That’s the mission of this passage.
We need to love one another.
Now, he doesn’t just
leave us with a command,
he says, Now watch me.
He gives us the method.
In fact, look at the next verse,
actually same verse, verse 12.
This is my command that you love
one another as I have loved you.
He gives us the model,
Here’s the command to love.
Do you want to know how?
Watch me, he says
back in chapter 13.
You want to know how
to serve one another.
And he washed their feet.
He showed them how to love.
But what happens in these next
few verses?
In fact,
I think verse 13 through 16
are an expansion on that idea.
Love, as I have loved
you. Want to know how to love one another?
Watch my model as I have loved you.
And here’s what that means.
And so we’re going to see six ways,
six methods that he lays out in these
next few verses about
the ways he loved us.
And this is a
different take
on how to love one another,
because I could stand up here and give
and it would be good.
By the way,
there’ll be other times we’ll do that.
There’s other times I have done that.
I could give specific methods
on how we should love one another,
you know, be kind to one another,
give encouragement,
give compliments, serve one another.
And that’s really important.
But where we’re starting today
is looking at how Jesus
loved his followers.
That takes us back to the source of love,
because we can have great methods
for how we love one another.
But it’s got to be rooted
in the source of love.
That’s where we want to start.
So we’re going to look at the six ways
in this passage
that he loved his disciples
and I think also how he loves us.
That’s the starting point
for how we love one another.
So let’s look at the first
one here,
first method he outlines here
and how we love one another.
Look at verse 13,
Love one another as I have loved you.
Greater love has no one than this
that someone laid down his life
for his friends.
So the first is sacrifice.
The first way he models loving one
another is sacrifice.
You know, all love involves
some measure of sacrifice.
In fact,
love is the greatest commandment.
Love your neighbor,
love the Lord your God.
And among the greatest commands,
the greatest expression of that,
he says, here, is to lay down your life
for someone else
to be willing to lay down your life.
Now we know
that what he is
referring to primarily here
is that he is about to
lay down his life for them
and of
course, for us
and for the world to know
him, to know true life.
We know that’s
what he’s referring to primarily,
but they don’t know that.
In fact, we’ve seen all along
how they’re missing
what he’s really saying. Right?
So try to imagine how this phrase
would land on his disciples.
I mean, look back.
He says,
Greater love–
verse 13– has no one than this,
that someone laid down
his life for his friends.
And you are my friends.
You have to be imagining
in that moment
that they’re hearing him say,
You want to know
what real love looks like.
You lay down your life
for your friends and you’re my friends,
and they’ve all along
been all about
what they believed to be
the mission of the Messiah.
Let’s go overthrow the government.
You take over,
set up a new righteous rule,
and we’ll be at your right hand.
The left will be in power as well.
And they
hear time to lay down your life.
The time is ahead of us.
I’ve got to think that
they’re sitting here thinking,
This is time.
We’re going out in a blaze of glory
in this moment.
You know,
they’re probably saying,
remember the Alamo
or thinking of Custer’s
Last Stand
or Thermopylae and the Spartans
or maybe Mel Gibson in Scotland.
Like who knows what
all is running through their mind
in terms of rallying cry.
Let’s charge the mountain.
We’re willing to
lay down our lives in this moment.
But I think there’s a day to day
application for us because, by the way,
they will lay down their lives
just not the way they thought
and not the time they thought.
They’re going to lay down their lives
for the gospel,
for the proclamation of the gospel.
But when it
comes to
us, this idea
of laying down our lives for our friends,
this idea of love
involving sacrifice –man,
that can take on a million different
iterations every single day.
And, you know, the really maddening
part of this is
it’s easy to lay down my life
to love someone when I want to.
When I find them loving,
when they feel worth it.
Maybe they did something for me first.
But you know what’s crazy
is so many of the opportunities
to really love
someone come from a hard situation.
Someone being
maybe someone being rude to you.
In fact, I’ve found
it seems like
that when people
are difficult with you and rude to you,
that’s one of the ways
they’re saying I need love.
Okay. Waving the red flag.
Love me.
I need to be seen.
No one else will love me.
I don’t know what else to do.
I got to react.
I just finished reading.
I mentioned it many months ago.
I finally got through it.
A book on the history of delusions.
Okay.
Research for something that I see here
in the crowd. Don’t worry.
I just found the topic interesting.
But the author walks
through a bunch of different delusions
in the history of the world.
One was a man who thought
his head had been cut off
and a new a different head had been.
They put the wrong head back on him.
You know,
this was the time
of the French Revolution
and the guillotines.
And his evidence was his teeth.
It’s like, look at my teeth.
My teeth aren’t that bad.
It’s got to be someone else’s head.
Okay.
Another delusion was King Charles,
the sixth king of France, 1300s.
He was convinced
all his bones had turned to glass
as he wouldn’t let people touch him
or he would crumble.
He even had iron rods
sewn into his clothing
just in case his bones break.
You’d be able to still support himself
and then go through people who
were convinced they were Napoleon
or some other famous leader.
Even long
after that
person had died and passed away.
The interesting conclusion of that book
is, though, you see the author
she really wrestled with,
Why are there
so many different kinds of delusions?
Why do people end up there
in these ridiculous places?
And she said, I’ve come to see
that most people
who fall into a delusion, it’s their mind
in a subconscious way, saying,
give me attention.
I need to be seen.
I’m not being seen.
Even the king of France, no one knows me.
No one loves me.
Would you just notice me?
And attention equals
love.
And love requires sacrifice.
And here’s what I would say
to you in this moment.
Who in your life needs love,
right?
Who is waving their hand?
And now you’re taking it
more like a fist waving.
And it might be
who is saying I need love?
I’m not seen.
I need attention.
Will you love me?
How do we move toward that person?
In fact, I’d encourage you
as I continue, we’re number one of six.
The others will move along more quickly
to write down specifics.
Just be praying, Lord.
Bring to mind
specifically that person I need to love.
What person?
What time, what day, where.
The more specifics you can put to it,
the more likely it is to happen.
We can’t just leave it in the vague.
Yeah. I need to be more loving.
No, I’m going to call my grandma
Thursday at noon and invite her to lunch
because she needs love.
Be specific, drive towards
specifics, be praying, God would you put
specifics on my heart?
On how I can love someone?
So that’s the first way.
Sacrifice.
Now let’s look at the second way here.
Keep looking. Look at verse 13 again.
Greater love has no one than this.
That someone laid down his life
for his friends.
And then notice what he says to them.
You are my friends
if you do what I command.
No longer do I call you servants,
for the servant
does not know what his master is doing.
But I have called you friend.
So the second way
he models,
the second example he gives us of
love is friendship.
He calls us friends,
which is a powerful thing to say.
And we’re in an age
where you can have hundreds of friends online.
We’ve got to add things like,
in real life,
a true friend.
And you know the difference.
Gigantic difference.
Jesus calls them friends.
The word there for friend
shows up about 30 times in Scripture
in the New Testament.
And it’s
you hear this word
play out in the city, Philadelphia.
You know, what’s this?
What’s that?
The nickname
or the meaning of the word Philadelphia.
What are they called? Do you know?
City of Brotherly Love.
Those two words mean brother and love
philos–
It’s just the word for love,
even baked into the word.
That’s the same word
translated as friend.
Even baked into that word
friend, is the idea of love
loving one another.
And that word is used in a variety
of ways, though in fact,
one of the ways that’s
used is as an insult.
The Pharisees
call Jesus a friend
of tax collectors,
a friend of the unwanted.
That they they’re using it as an insult.
Of course, he sees it as a compliment.
Thank you. That’s right.
You’ve got it.
It’s also used just as a general
term of address.
He would use it with a large crowd.
Let me tell you, my friends, today,
you know,
when he gives
a sermon on the plane in Luke, friends,
large crowd.
But I only saw him use it
that I could see
three times in a personal address.
And it’s really interesting.
The first time was with Judas.
Or one of the times was with Judas
Friend.
Go ahead and do what you’ve come to do.
And we could unpack that for a while
about what was going on there.
Also, with Lazarus,
one of our
friends, our friend Lazarus has died.
We need to go see him.
But then he uses it
here with the disciples friends.
I call you friends
and a friend
is someone
who lets you into their world.
That’s someone that cares about you
in a different way.
In fact,
the contrast here is between a friend
and a slave.
Look back here again at verse 14.
You are my friends.
If you do what I command you.
Now, let me make a comment about that,
because this makes it sound
a little too conditional.
You are my friends.
If
like in middle school, you know.
Yeah,
you can be my friend
if you give me part of your lunch
every day.
That’s not.
That’s a red flag right
there, by the way.
That’s not a real friend.
We know that’s not.
It’s not really
if in the way we would think.
It’s more like since,
you know,
you are my friends,
since you follow my commands.
In fact, one,
I’m gonna throw this quote up on the screen.
One guy said it this way.
Obedience marks
rather than makes us friends.
I thought that was a good way to say it.
If we don’t obey him
just so that we can
somehow try to gain favor with him enough
so that maybe he will be our friend
and kind to us.
No, it’s obedience
out of the overflow,
of the joy of knowing him
and knowing that when we obey him,
that’s where we find our greatest joy
in life.
It’s the overflow of that.
Huge difference. Doesn’t mark–
It doesn’t make, it marks.
It shows
that we are his friends.
And he called them friends.
Noticing a shift in the relationship.
Because the contrast
with that– continuing in verse 14–
No longer do I call you servants.
No longer do I call you servants,
for the servant
does not know what his master is doing.
But I have called you friends.
In fact,
this is pointing at the third way
that he gives them the method of love.
The example of love.
And that’s knowledge.
The difference between a friend
and a slave,
he says here,
the servant does not know
what his master is doing.
But I’ve called you friends
for all that I’ve heard from my father.
I have made known to you.
I have revealed to you
a friend let you into their world.
They don’t keep things from you.
They’re not trying to hide things
from you.
There’s a delight
in exchange of ideas and information
of being on the inside.
And he has let them in
even though they haven’t seen it.
He has shared with them
over and over and over again
here’s what I’m really about.
Here’s why I’ve come.
I remember working
with a guy who
he had a very specific way
of doing things,
a very specific way
that he wanted things done
for those who worked for him.
And he would give
very specific instructions
about how he wanted the work done.
And he didn’t want any input
from the guys who worked for him.
You– I give the commands,
you carry it out.
That’s how it works.
Now, this was really frustrating
for those guys who worked for him.
But then they came to a point.
In fact,
I was reminded of the Teddy
Roosevelt quote,
One of the best ways to show
that a law is not a good law
is to just
carry it out to its fullest extent.
You could ignore it
and of course,
you should try to change it,
but go ahead,
carry it out to its fullest extent
and then everybody will see, well,
that wasn’t a good idea.
And so these guys fully embrace that.
Okay.
That’s how you want it done.
That’s what we’ll do.
Exactly as you said.
And no more and no less.
And of course, the work
that he had for them to carry out
always had problems.
The projects
never went the way they should.
And he was frustrated and blaming them.
We did what you said.
Still didn’t-
didn’t want their input.
We did what you said, and that’s all.
But you know how it’s different
when you serve with someone who
you delight in doing what they ask.
They want to hear from you as well.
They want to tell you why
there’s a give and take
when someone’s not just the boss,
but also a friend.
I think of– I put it in the midweek
update this week about
the Band of Brothers book
that talked about the easy
company on D-Day, World War Two.
There’s one guy in particular
in that book that is featured as just
the quintessential leader
in that group, Major Dick Winters.
And the guys said of him,
We hated to let him down.
We hated to let him down.
We wanted to go to whatever length
it took to carry out what he said.
And of course, he was listening to them.
He was leading them.
He was making sure that they were heard.
They were as involved in it as
as he was.
Gigantic difference.
The movement from slave to friend.
Now, I got to say, though,
I love that idea.
Jesus is my friend.
But also it makes me a little nervous
to say that. Does anybody else go,
I don’t know about that.
That feels a little weird
to call Jesus, my friend.
I don’t know
how comfortable I am with that.
Feels too informal,
maybe feels a little too loosey goosey.
Like Jesus… friend…
I don’t know.
You know, I think.
I think there’s something
to that, actually.
I wouldn’t just say, Well,
hey, just get over that.
He calls us friend.
You’re his friend.
Be good with that.
I think there’s something to that,
because in scripture,
you see
Jesus calling people friends,
but you don’t really see them
calling him friend.
And I don’t know that this
is a perfect analogy, but maybe
maybe it’s a little bit like it’s okay
for the president to give you a nickname.
George Bush was kind of famous
for that, handing out
nicknames,
but you don’t walk up and call him
Prezzy or something, right?
It’s not really right for you to give him
a nickname.
Again,
not a perfect analogy,
but there’s still a level of respect
and difference that’s there.
Even Paul in Titus,
he starts out by saying, I’m an apostle
and then I know you’ve
heard this
because we’ve talked about this
in our men’s breakfast.
I’m an apostle and I’m a slave.
He still sees part of his identity.
Jesus is our friend.
Yes. Yes. There’s a friendship.
There’s a deeper connection there.
He’s not just a dictator,
but there’s still a difference.
And that’s okay to recognize that it’s
okay to hold those in tension.
So third is friendship.
And now fourth, look what he does in verse 14,
going into verse 15,
I’ve called you friends
for all that I have heard from my father,
I’ve made known to you.
You did not choose me,
but I chose you and appointed you
that you should go and bear fruit
and that your fruit should abide
or remain.
Jesus chooses his disciples.
In ancient times
it was usually the other way around.
The disciples found the rabbi.
They went after him to follow him.
And maybe if they were fortunate,
the rabbi would finally
give them attention
and allow him to continue following them.
But Jesus, He goes to people
who seem totally fine where they were
fishing or messing with money.
You follow me,
you’re mine.
Come
put down everything else.
Follow me.
Jesus chooses them.
And you know what I think
what’s fascinating about that
and I’m this way,
it probably felt like to them.
Yeah, I chose Jesus.
I was smart enough to know where that guy
was going.
Latched myself on to him,
look at how great I am.
And look, by the way,
they did choose him, too.
That’s true.
But we’re able to love one another
because he first loved us.
He came to us first
and said, You’re mine, you’re mine.
And we had to respond to that.
But you’re mine.
He chose and he chose number four.
Number five.
He chose for a purpose.
Look at what it says
he chose in verse 16.
You did not choose me.
I chose you
and appointed you
that you should go and bear fruit.
Your fruit should abide.
When he
chose us, he also gave us a purpose,
which is to love, to multiply,
to bear fruit.
The purpose of the disciples
was to then now multiply,
to spread the Great Commission,
to spread the gospel to the world.
So number five is a point he chooses,
but he also appoints.
And he gives us a mission.
He gives us purpose.
And we all need purpose in life.
You need direction in life.
There’s nothing
harder than a purposeless life.
But he gives that when he chooses.
He guides.
He directs.
And then number six, look at verse 16.
Whatever you ask.
The father in my name,
he may give it to you.
Whatever you ask the father in my name,
he may give it to you.
We’ve seen that verse
a couple of other times already.
We’ve talked about
how that’s not just a formula,
but it means as I get to know him
better, my prayers more and more
what he would have in me.
But the key thing for us to hear here,
because we’ve been focused
on the asking part,
we need to ask
we need to ask in a way that honors him
but what was powerful
here is he listens.
In fact, it’s number six in the ways
he loves us.
He listens.
And whatever you ask
the father in my name,
he may give it to you.
He hears us.
Practically speaking,
that’s one of the most powerful way
you can love
other people is to just listen to them.
Think of the person
who has just listened to you
and how much love that showed you.
He listens.
He hears where you are.
He’s… here’s what you’re going through.
He knows where you are
and he deeply loves and cares about you.
And this section has already showed
ends with a verse on love.
The commandment is to love one another.
And it began with the command on love.
And that’s our call.
Love one another.
Love one another
well.
man, because when God gets a hold of you,
He changes you.
He makes you able to love others.
Had a friend he shared with me.
This is a really sharp guy
at so many levels.
Degree after degree
after degree and various fields.
And he said, You know, before I knew
Christ, I was one of the angriest persons
you could ever meet. Quick tempered.
And I
would go
blows in a heartbeat over nothing.
And he said, Christ got a hold of him
in a radical conversion.
He put aside drugs and partying
in a radical conversion. In a moment.
And there shortly
after he
is on campus, is in college,
and he’s excited about Christ.
And there’s a
there’s a preacher out on the campus,
open air preacher.
And so he goes to hear him
because he just wants to soak up
God’s word wherever he is,
and he’s listening to this guy.
But then there’s another guy over
heckling him.
You know come on, Whatever.
That’s dumb.
You’re an idiot.
He probably chose different words than that.
Nobody believes that
junk, on and on.
And finally, he turns to the guy.
He’s like, Hey, man,
let him talk.
It’s okay.
And this guy erupts on him.
You know, you Nimcompoop. Again,
different words. You moron.
On and on.
And my friend goes,
I got to tell you, man, the rage meter.
Ooooh…
It was coming to the top in an instant.
But the love of Christ overwhelmed me
in that moment.
He had changed me.
And before
I would have picked that guy apart
in an instant, without a question.
And he said, I turned to him
and I looked at him and I just said,
Hey, man, it’s going to be okay.
It’s going to be all right.
It’s going to be okay.
Jesus loves you.
And that guy quieted down.
He just began to take in the moment.
When Christ gets a hold of you,
he radically changes your life.
And he puts us in a place
where we can love one another.
Even those who are unloving toward us.
Move toward the unloving.
Press toward the unloving.
That’s a flag.
Love me.
I need be seen.
Show me love.
I know that’s hard.
I know that’s complicated.
But that’s our call.
And Christ
gives us the strength to do that.
Let’s pray.
God, we thank you for this morning.
We thank you
that you give us the power to love.
And I
thank you
that I’m in a church and full of people
who love well. Okay,
none of us do it perfectly. We know that.
But Lord we want you to teach us
how to love.
Help us to know how to love one another.
We want this church
to be known as a place
where your love is poured out
in relationship after relationship
after relationship.
And God,
we thank you for the loving care
given to our children
for decade after decade
after decade after decade
by a woman
who has committed to you,
who deeply loves you.
And we pray overwhelming blessings
on Eddie Lee’s life moving forward.
Help us to love her well,
help us to continue to love our children
well.
We know that you are raising up
through our children
a future generation of people
who steadfastly love and follow you.
God, we ask all these things in your name.
We pray. Amen.
