December 29, 2024 |
Sunday Morning
Matthew 28:18-20 | The Flourishing Church Member
John C. Majors |
Matthew 28:18-20
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You know what a
great song to take us into a new year.
Here we are,
post-Christmas, just before the new year,
and I think most people,
when they’re looking forward
to the new year,
are wanting to see
God do some new things in their life,
to see him provide in some new ways.
It may be financially,
maybe you’re hoping that in the coming
year,
you’ll see some breakthroughs
in your finances,
or maybe
be able to put aside some debt
that’s been lingering, or oftentimes
some of the big ones are.
I hope to shed a few pounds
this coming year., or focus on my health.
We have some hopes and dreams
for the coming year,
and I hope they’re always rooted in
my God will provide.
He’s where I’m looking to for provision.
In fact,
as I thought about today’s message,
I thought,
what if,
as we’re dreaming
for things of the new year,
as we’re dreaming of our our hopes
and what we want to see
God do in our lives, what if
for every one of us in this room,
for every person, our greatest dream,
our greatest hope,
our greatest desire
was to see God work in our lives
with an increased intimacy
with him,
a depth of relationship with Christ
like we’ve never had before.
For that to be our greatest hope,
our greatest
longing, our greatest desire
more than any financial goals,
more than any fitness
goals, more than any of that.
And those are great. I have those too.
But for my relationship,
my growth with Christ to be the thing
I’m longing for in the coming year
more than anything else.
Imagine if that were the case here.
If every one of us were overwhelmed
with that longing
more than anything else,
what could happen in this church,
in our community, in our lives?
I think that’s what
we all really want.
That’s why you’re here.
If you didn’t want that, you’d be at home
watching Friends reruns,
sitting on the couch, just chilling,
wondering what’s going on with my life.
There’s times maybe you need to do that.
I get that,
but you’re here
because that’s what you want.
I want to know
Christ more than ever before.
That’s what I’m longing for, isn’t it?
Isn’t that true?
Amen. Really?
Is that what you want?
That’s what I want.
That’s what
I want more than anything else.
Now, as I say, that
that’s not easy to say,
because I know what that means.
It’s exciting to say,
and it’s a little scary to say,
because I know that requires
living a little differently,
making some different decisions.
I know that will require
maybe Christ
making some changes in my life
that maybe I’m kind of comfortable with.
I kind of like how things are.
I don’t really want to change that,
you know what I mean?
It’s exciting and it’s
scary at the same time.
But listen, there’s no other way to live
than to live with that kind of excitement,
that kind of joy,
that kind of forward looking hope.
That’s my prayer for Valley View
going forward.
In fact, when I came here
three years now, three years ago,
and I thought about Valley View
and I thought about how
much it meant to me growing up here.
I can’t tell you how much Valley View
has meant to me,
the way that this church poured into me
as a kid, as a kid,
the way I could look around the room
and see some of the folks
who intentionally invested in me
and all that God did in my life
as a result of that.
You know,
I want that for every
person who walks in here
to experience the fullness
of all that God can do in your life.
And I want Valley View to be a key
part of that.
I mean, if you’re here,
my hope is that you go.
My life is different
because of Valley View
in a good way, by the way,
my hope is that
everyone would be able to say
that God has moved in my life.
And I look at this person,
I look at that person.
He’s used them to invest deeply in me.
I mean, imagine if that’s
what this next year were about.
When I first came,
I sat and I thought, okay,
what would that look like
for that to be the case,
for that to happen,
what needs to be true at Valley View?
And I came up with this three
level or three layer
vision for every member of Valley View.
If all that were true,
if God was working in our lives,
if we were growing
incredibly,
if he were at work in my life,
what would that look like
for every member?
And I’m going to walk through that today.
I think that will set us up
for this coming year.
There’s this three part definition.
We’re going to walk through it.
I’m just going to read the whole thing
to start with,
and then we’ll break it down
piece by piece.
But if you are flourishing
as a member of Valley View,
here’s what I hope will be true.
Because of how Valley View
Christ has worked in your life
through Valley View. Here it is.
This should be up on the screen.
My prayer
for every member of Valley View is
that they would be first
a fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ.
And I’m not going to read off
the references right now.
I’m going to unpack those
when we get to each of these.
A fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ
who is flourishing
and growing spiritually,
personally and emotionally.
And then number three,
they are passionate
about serving others
and proclaiming Jesus.
When I thought about someone who is
experiencing the
fullness of all our church has to offer,
I felt like those things
should be true of us.
Now, of course,
we’ll have our ups and downs.
None of us are going to be perfect
Christians.
We say
all the time, just come as you are.
We don’t expect perfection.
We just hope that you are coming
and growing and seeking to grow.
This isn’t a place
where we want people to be perfect,
but we do also hope to be growing
and attaining
and growing
in our relationship
with Christ and moving forward.
And when I think about each of us,
my hope
is that each of those statements
would be true of us
over time,
eventually, year by year,
growing in the truth of those.
So let’s talk about each of those.
That first one was
a fully devoted follower of Jesus Christ.
I spent the first
few sermons
I did here walking through Luke 9:23
that unpacks a bit of this idea
of what it means to follow Christ.
If anyone wishes to come after me,
he says, let him deny himself,
take up his cross daily, and follow me.
And if we are going to fully experience
devotion to Christ,
that means that
we need to say no to ourselves.
That means
that we need to die to self daily.
We need to submit to Christ
and what he has for us.
And my hope for everyone here is that
Christ is not just something
I’ve tacked on the side of my life
that I lean on
when I need to in the hard times,
but that Christ is at the center
of everything.
Every aspect of my life is shaped by him.
In fact, my life,
everything about it is different
and new and greater and better
because he is at the core of my life,
fully
devoted, follower of Christ.
So that’s the first layer.
But the second, we’ll see.
Second is that you should be.
And my hope is that
everyone would be flourishing
and growing spiritually, personally
and emotionally.
And each of those words-
and that sentence are very intentional-
flourishing,
John 10:10 is listed there.
That’s where Jesus says,
I have come
that they may have life, and life
abundantly.
And you all know what this is like.
There’s regular, everyday life.
I’m just surviving.
I’m just making it, yada yada.
Everything’s going along as normal.
But then there is abundant life
where you feel like I am alive.
I am most alive in this moment.
That’s what Jesus wants
for you day by day, moment
by moment
is the abundant life in him
where you’re flourishing, in him
where every day
you can’t imagine
that you could get any closer to him.
And yet you do.
I don’t know
why this is, but
it seems like in a lot of churches
and a lot of Christian circles,
people often have a quick spurt of growth
as a young Christian
and then just kind of hit cruise control.
But growth should continue year
by year, day by day, over and over again.
And it should
continue and grow and flourish.
Now there were three words in particular
there I added to be very intentional.
And by the way, let me pause here and say
growth and flourishing.
I want to be careful not to say then.
Therefore you should,
for instance, always be happy.
Look, we all hit hard seasons.
We all have seasons where you go,
I don’t know how this day is going to go.
I’m not enjoying this day.
And yet, I promise you God
can still be working in your life.
You can still be growing and flourishing
through the midst of that.
But it doesn’t mean we always
put on the fake happy face.
There are times where we go,
yeah, no, actually,
I’m not doing very well.
And that’s okay to say
that’s a part of growth.
Acknowledging that, not ignoring that.
But there’s three words in there.
We chose very particular
growing spiritually, personally
and emotionally.
All three are very important.
Of course we want
you growing spiritually.
That’s what
the church is primarily about.
I hope that you are growing,
and your understanding
of what it means to follow Christ,
that you’re growing in holiness,
that you feel him working in your life.
And you’re saying no
to the things of the past
and yes
to the things of him
that you’re growing
in your understanding of God’s Word.
I mean, that’s
the central part of what we do
as a church is we try to teach
God’s Word faithfully.
We want you in God’s Word reading it.
In fact,
each year
we go through a Bible
reading plan together.
And you might have seen in the lobby
if you were looking,
because now’s the time to start into
our Bible reading plan for this year.
We have copies out in the lobby.
We rotate through three different plans
and now it’s time.
I know some of
you have been a little nervous.
You knew it was coming back around.
We’re going to read
through the whole Bible again this year.
And if that’s too much, look,
do what you can, all right?
It’s better to have a little Bible
than no Bible.
Do what you can.
Read a day,
read a little bit,
read a verse, read something,
pick up this plan, look at it.
If it seems too intimidating, decide
you know what
I can do every other day,
or I can do
one day a week, or I can spread one day.
Just be in God’s word.
That’s what we want for you
more than anything,
just about other than knowing Christ,
loving him
personally, being in His Word
is one of the most powerful ways
you can grow as a Christian. In fact,
if you are a Christian, there should be
a hunger for God’s Word within you.
There should be a hunger to know
His Word.
I remember when Julie and I first
married, we went.
Sometimes we’d go and visit her church.
We had some folks
there who were partnered in ministry
with us, and I remember meeting
this guy there early on.
And he he was a young guy, newly married,
and we were in marriage ministry.
So we were talking some about that.
And as we were
getting to know each other,
he just asked me, hey, John, what what
what are you into?
What are some of your hobbies?
And I said, I just have
one hobby that’s reading.
And he said, that’s weird, but
okay.
It’s weird
because I’ve never read
a full book in my life.
And I loved hearing
some of the groans there. That was nice.
And I said, really?
How is that possible?
I know you went to college.
You graduated college.
You played basketball in college.
How did you get through college
without reading a single book?
And he said it.
It was hard, but I did it, I made it,
I persevered.
He had, like, this personal commitment
to actually get through college
without reading a book.
And so I thought, okay,
you know, whatever.
I can’t really relate to that.
But we went our separate ways that day
and I thought, I need to be praying
for this guy. You know, like
we come back around a year
later and we had talked,
we had dialogued, I had
given him some resources
and he could not get enough.
Something had switched in him and books
that would have been doorstops
before he was. Now give me more.
Now, look,
you don’t have to be a big reader
to be a Christian, all right?
I’m not saying that,
but there should be a hunger for
for learning about the Bible,
knowing the Bible, studying the Bible.
If there’s none of that there,
if you go,
I can’t really find the strength
to even open the Bible.
I spent some time praying,
God, would you stir up in me
a hunger for your word?
I want your word hidden in my heart.
It’s His Word
that he will
bring to mind when you need His Spirit
moving in your life.
But we’ve got to invest
His Word into our lives,
and that’s a key part
of growing spiritually as a church.
That that’s my hope,
is that each of us
are growing spiritually.
Of course, now
the other two words added
very intentionally,
because if you’re growing spiritually,
I also hope you’re growing personally.
Meaning if that if Christ
is in your work,
if Christ is at work in your life
growing you closer to him,
then I should also be growing
as an employee.
I should be becoming a better employee.
I should be someone who is better
at serving others around me.
If I’m a boss,
I should be becoming better
at leading the people who serve under me
that they can say
because he,
he or she is my boss,
I’ve become a better person.
I should be growing as a spouse.
My spouse should be able to say
God is at work in their life.
They’re becoming more tender
and kind and loving
and caring and listening.
I should be grow as a child.
Everybody here has parents and I,
if they are still alive,
I should be growing in my ability
to interact with them,
to love them, to serve them.
I should be growing as a student.
I should be growing as a neighbor.
My neighbor should say, that’s someone.
I don’t know what all is going
in their life.
That’s someone
who I’m glad they live here.
When we were
moving away from little Rock
to move here, our neighbors
threw a going away party
and in fact,
one of my neighbors, Leo,
the neighborhood mayor,
presented us with a trophy
as the best neighbor.
I say us
actually go ahead
and put the image
of that trophy on the screen.
It was only to Julie
Julie Majors, world’s best neighbor.
I was like, Leo, I’m right here.
Like, where’s my trophies? He’s like John,
you know why you didn’t get a trophy.
Leo, the neighborhood mayor.
There’s something about us.
If I’m growing in Christ,
I should be growing as a neighbor.
I should be growing personally.
I should be growing.
Here’s the phrase I love.
I should be growing as a life giver.
When people are around me,
I should be giving life again.
Not a fake happy thing
where I’ve always got to be perfect.
But in general,
I should be a life giver, not a taker.
This world is full of takers.
People just want to take, take, take.
And even if you don’t have much means,
you can still be giving life to people.
So there’s personally,
I should be growing spiritually.
I should be growing personally.
And this word I’m especially
burdened for.
I should be growing emotionally.
You.
You’ve seen this in churches.
Churches that give a heavy emphasis
to learning,
growing in theology,
growing in Scripture.
And I hope our church
has a heavy emphasis on that.
I hope you feel
the emphasis on knowing God’s Word.
Sometimes what happens, though, is things
get out of bounds
where we put so much emphasis on that.
You’ll meet
someone who can quote Scripture
at length,
who has read great
depths of theology, can argue
with, argue
with you
about the finest details of theology,
and yet they’re unkind,
unloving,
difficult to be around,
divisive.
Always have a sour face.
Can never smile.
Those two should never be true
of each other.
If I’m really growing
and knowing God’s Word,
if I’m really growing and knowing Christ,
I should become more loving,
more approachable.
I should be growing in character as well.
We’re not dividing those
I’ve grown spiritually,
but not in character.
Those two,
if you are truly
growing spiritually,
you are also growing in love.
You are also growing.
I become
I should be becoming more approachable,
less defensive.
I should be more quick to forgive.
I should be someone who receives
forgiveness more easily.
I should be less quick to anger.
Someone who has more self-control.
Maybe of of my words and what I say.
More self-control over what
I consume, whether that’s visually
and this one’s going to hurt
in the Baptist church, but also
the food I consume
at certain times of year.
Self-control
is a part of my spiritual life.
It’s an important part.
We should be growing in that
we should be growing
emotionally as a church.
That’s a key part of our growth.
So that’s number two
that I would be growing
emotionally, personally,
spiritually,
growing in love,
growing in love for others.
And then number three
and number three is number
three on purpose.
Because the overflow of all that
should be a passion for others,
a passion to serve others,
and then a passion for
proclaiming Christ,
that should be the overflow.
If Christ is at work in my life,
it should be a natural desire to also
serve others.
We’ll talk about that one first,
to pour into the life of others.
Mark 10:45 Jesus said, The Son of Man
did not come to be served.
And I remember the day
I was in church and we were in Phoenix,
I was attending seminary.
A guy from the seminary came
and he attended the service,
and I asked him afterwards,
how did it go?
What did you think?
It was his first time there.
And he goes, well,
I just didn’t feel edified this morning.
And I thought,
but you
your immediate response was, serve me.
And maybe it’s okay
if you don’t feel edified at times,
I get that.
But that was the first thing
out of– serve me.
The Son of Man did not come to be served,
but to serve
and give his life as a ransom for many.
And if Christ is at work in my life,
the overflow of that,
the excitement of that is to serve
others,
is to want to pour
into the lives of others.
And the way I think of service at church,
my prayer, my burden.
I’m not into guilting people
into service.
I have come around to some of the life
groups and said, hey,
we need help in the kids area
because we have more kids
come and we need help.
We need just step in.
The excitement of this is great with
who will raise their hands and help out,
and people do.
But I’m not
into guilting people into service
because here’s what I want
for everyone here.
Here’s what I pray for often.
I pray that
when you wake up in the morning,
you’re thinking about the ministry
you get to serve
in, and you’re thinking,
I can’t believe I get to do this.
I feel like God has made me for this.
I finally have found the thing
where he’s using me.
I see him working in my life.
I see people benefiting
spiritually from the way
God is using my gifts.
I never thought I would find this
and here
I have found this area of service.
That’s my prayer.
That’s what I want.
I want people
serving from an area of strength
and joy and flourishing,
not guilt and condemnation
because no one else would.
I guess I have to.
We have those seasons.
But in general,
I want to see you in a place where it is
your joy and delight to be serving.
Every week
you wake up thinking about it every day
you’re sitting at the office
filling out some paperwork, thinking,
I can’t wait to get to do the thing
I feel like God has made me to do.
That’s what I hope.
And I know some of us have that,
and some of us don’t.
And some of us are going
I have no idea what you’re talking about
right there.
But my prayer is that over time,
God would direct,
and that’s what service would look like.
I was hanging out with Alan Johnson
recently.
He’s one of our members
here at the church.
And Alan
said, when I met Kelly,
one of my prayers had always
been his wife, Kelly.
My prayer,
one of my prayers had always been
that we would be able
to serve in ministry together.
We would be serving alongside
one another.
And look, not that’s not for everybody.
Some people have.
We serve separate for different reasons.
We have different gifts.
And but one of his desires
is that they’d be able to serve together.
And so they started
serving in AWANA together.
AWANA is our scripture memory program
for kids on Wednesday nights. It’s great.
It’s really fun to be a part of.
It’s amazing to watch these kids work
so hard to memorize scripture.
And if you’ve helped with that,
you’re sitting there going,
when’s the last time I worked
that hard to memorize scripture?
I don’t know, it’s
inspiring to watch them.
Alan said.
I didn’t
really think that would be
where I would serve in ministry,
but I loved that we were serving together
and I watch these kids work so hard.
I watch them struggle, I saw them,
and I got to give
thanks to God
that I got to be a part of that.
And he said,
let me tell you,
when it made it all worth it
is when I saw on a Sunday morning
where a couple of them were up here
getting baptized,
I said, man, that made it.
That made everything so worth it to know
God had used me in some way in their life
to see them grow.
The overflow of God
working in my life is to want
to serve and pour into others.
And then lastly
is proclaiming Jesus, passionately
proclaiming Jesus.
If you’re excited about something,
you can’t not tell others about it.
And if Christ has
brought about
a radical life change in your life,
the natural overflow of that
is to want to tell others.
And we have different gifts,
different abilities and that.
So some of us that may look
more like door to door evangelism,
more active, engaged evangelism.
Some of
it might look like
serving food to a neighbor
over decades until the door opens
to talk about Christ.
We have different gifts and abilities
when it comes,
but there should be within us this desire
to tell others about Christ,
and part of that is because of the way
Jesus talked to his disciples
at the end of his time on earth.
Some of the last words
he left them with are in Matthew.
And if you have your Bibles,
turn to Matthew 28.
It’s Matthew’s,
the first book of the New Testament,
and chapter 28,
the last chapter of the book of Matthew.
Go ahead and turn there.
We’re going to read that.
Turn the Bible the right way.
We’re going to read
these last couple of verses.
These are some of the very last words
he says to his people.
This is why these words
are important for us.
If someone as they’re leaving
says, oh, by the way, do this
parting words,
it’s called the Great Commission.
He commissions them.
He gives them a mission
right as he leaving, Matthew 28:18
through 20, Jesus came and said to them,
all authority in heaven
and on earth has been given to me.
Go, therefore make disciples
of all nations,
baptizing them in the name of the father,
and of the son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Teaching them to observe
all I have commanded you.
And behold,
I am with
you always to the end of the age.
This is why missions is an important part
of our church
and Southern Baptists in general.
In fact,
Southern Baptists were actually started
not as a denomination,
but as a missions agency.
A bunch of different
Baptist
groups came together
and said, let’s partner together
so we can reach more people in missions.
Let’s pool our resources and
and abilities.
That’s been at the core of our church
from the beginning.
How are we proclaiming Christ
to those all around the world,
to your neighbors,
to your friends, to your family?
My hope is that
if you are excited about what
Christ is doing in your life,
that you’re telling others
and you all have that friend
that when you’re around them,
they’ve got this thing that you know
they’re going to bring up.
It’s just a matter of time, right?
You know what I mean?
For Julie right now in
this season has been sourdough bread.
If you’re around her five minutes,
she’s going to want to talk about
the intricacies of sourdough bread.
If you run into Terry Young,
it won’t take two minutes before
he’s talking about the movie
The Forge
and how much men benefit from it.
The funny thing about Terry is he’ll
he’ll actually try to apologize for that.
I’m sorry.
I’m talking about this so much.
We know you’re not Terry.
We know you’re not sorry at all.
Okay? Don’t apologize,
because I love the passion.
I love it,
keep bringing it, keep being excited.
His burden
deeply is for men to know Christ.
And you have something like that.
And if Christ has been at work
in your life.
There’s so many people
that want to hear that from you.
Sometimes we feel like, man,
no one wants to hear me
prattle on about Jesus.
And yet it’s the very thing they need
the most. You know them.
You can think of a person right now
that if Christ was
at the center of their life,
everything would be different.
Be praying that God would use you
as that person
to introduce them to Christ.
It’s the very thing they need the most.
And so, as I think of the coming year
together as a church
and how God might use us,
man, that’s my prayer.
More than any other
area of growth this year,
and I hope he does
bless you
in all the areas that we all pray
for going into a new year.
But I hope more than any other
that at the end of 2025 you go, man,
Christ worked in my life.
I know him
more deeply and richly
than I ever have before.
That’s my prayer
more than anything else.
In fact,
we’re going to take communion together
now to launch us into the New Year.
If you’re a deacon who’s
going to help with that,
go ahead and slip out now
and prepare those elements.
Here’s what I want to ask that as we are
taking communion together,
that you would just spend some time
praying for that specifically
Jesus, would you keep it
the forefront of my longings this year,
a longing to grow spiritually,
a longing to grow
if I grow anywhere
that it would be in knowing
you more than anywhere else,
while you’re waiting to
take communion, be be praying for that.
And here’s how we do communion here.
It’s open to anyone who knows Christ.
If you’ve committed to following him,
if you’ve accepted him
as your Lord and Savior,
you are welcome to take communion
with us.
The men will pass the trays
down the aisles
and there’s two cups
stacked on each other.
Just take two cups.
One has the bread underneath,
one has the juice on top,
and just hold on to those
until everyone has them.
And then we’ll take them together.
And while you’re holding on
to those in waiting, just pray.
Pray for God to move and pray for growth
in your life like never before
in the coming year.
And men if you would go ahead
and start distributing
those now down the aisles to everyone
and spend time praying
while you receive those,
and we’ll take them together
here in just a minute.
