Milestone 4 prepares your children to walk through the remaining milestones they will enter throughout the rest of their teenage years (5,6,7.) How you guide your child through this stage will determine the depth of challenge guiding your child through the remaining teenage years and the final three milestones. The adolescent years will challenge your child’s identity to the very core of who she is. The question he or she may not verbalize but will continually ask through this process is, “Who am I?” Certain influences on their life are forcing them to ask this question repeatedly. Guiding your child through this question will impact the rest of his life.